I Think I'm Pregnant

@Alian123 (549)
Philippines
January 12, 2019 5:39pm CST
I just had a sexual intercourse with my partner, it was 2 months ago, and one week after the intercourse my body felt strange. I was having symptoms of pregnancy like, nausea, headache, irregular bowel movement, bloating, and the frequent urge to pee. And I was already getting worried. On the second week I started to have spotting (little amount of blood) and that spotting turned into a moderate flood flow, enough to soak a pad. Again it worries me for I started to loose weight quickly, and the symptoms I was experiencing were slowly fading. Although the urge to pee, bloating, irregular bowel, and sore breasts are there. The bleeding stopped on the week where I was supposed to have my menstruation, and there I concluded that I was pregnant. But a month after, I started to get confused. My body hasn't change, yes I am experiencing bloating, but it will be gone after I discharge, and the bump in my belly isn't growing, it stays the same. To be honest, I really don't know anymore, I am afraid to take a test or go see the doctor. I'm 19 years old and still afraid of what could happen. The only thing I know is that this is something precious, a life soon to flourish. My parents doesn't know about this, and I know they'll be disappointed, and that's ok because they have the right to. What am I going to do now??
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8 responses
@NJChicaa (120056)
• United States
13 Jan 19
You need to take a pregnancy test and find out what the truth is. If you are pregnant, then you need to get proper care. If you aren't, then you need to start using protection.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
13 Jan 19
Yes I'll do that. Thank you
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
15 Jan 19
I agree to that and must be responsible of their actions. Can they support a family at a young age?
@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
13 Jan 19
i'm glad your partner knows and he's excited. but is he a student like you? is he financially able to support you and the baby and help you with raising your child?
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• Philippines
13 Jan 19
@Alian123 then you're lucky you're both financially stable. hopefully, you'll grow and stay together as a family.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
14 Jan 19
@hereandthere That would be such a great thing, if only things were that simple.
@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
13 Jan 19
We're both students, and both afraid of the fact and what could possibly happened. Money isn't really our problem, it's what our parents and other people will say.
@marguicha (223720)
• Chile
12 Jan 19
Take a pregnancy test and go to a doctor anyway.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
14 Jan 19
Take the pregnant test and yoy will know. Don't be afraid.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
15 Jan 19
Yes thank you for the advice
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
12 Jan 19
Take pregnancy test and discuss the matter with your partner and to your mother.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
12 Jan 19
Yes I was thinking about it. I have discussed it with my partner, he was okay with it, excited actually.
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@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Jan 19
@Alian123 It's most advisable that you do it with your partner after all you are not the only one responsible and you are still very young. I wonder how old is your boyfriend.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
13 Jan 19
@florelway he's the same age as me
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@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
13 Jan 19
Do not be afraid. Just like other forummers said take the pregnant test and consult doctor for clarification. Since your boyfriend willing to take the responsibility then he is a reliable and responsible man. Do not afraid.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
14 Jan 19
Yes thank you so much for the advice. At least now I am having enough courage to fave my fear.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
16 Jan 19
@Acefun Thank you so much, this really means a lot
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@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
15 Jan 19
@Alian123 You are welcome. We are here to support you. Anything you may let us know.
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@popciclecold (39461)
• United States
14 Jan 19
Take a test, head to the doctor just find out.
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
15 Jan 19
Yes I will, thanks
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
13 Jan 19
the best advice is to take the test, sometimes bodies behave weirdly especially after a climate change or after taking a new type of meal, so dear just take the test to be sure
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@Alian123 (549)
• Philippines
14 Jan 19
Thank you so much for you response, i really apreciate it. I will do as you say.
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