Having a Crush!
By krissy
@teltel (184)
January 12, 2019 9:57pm CST
think I'm having a crush with someone, he's so nice and spends a lot of time having conversations with me. He's from another country but we have met once when he visited our city. He shows a lot of concern specially when we both got sick because we walked in the rain when he was here.
The problem is, I'm married, so I want to avoid it but it's impossible because we have daily lessons, I teach him English everyday and our chats are part of his learning. Another problem is, he's starting to give signs that he likes me too T_T What to do?! T__T Teaching is my main source of earning..
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
13 Jan 19
Do you have kids? If yes, then you should leave this as just that - a feeling.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
13 Jan 19
@teltel It's okay and normal to have a crush. My closet is filled with pictures of a Korean singer and my hubby just laugh at me saying I'm like a teenager. I also had real life crushes but I avoid them. It is safer to have celebrity crushes because I have 0 chance with them
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
13 Jan 19
You should be careful - remember your marriage - tell your crush you are married too if he doesn't already know - take care
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Jan 19
You are married so I suggest you not let things go any further with the crush.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Jan 19
@teltel just think about how your husband and how he would feel if he found out and how it would affect your life. If yoi arent happy in your marriage then you need to think about you and be honest with your husband. Not all marriages last forever. People change. I think having a crush and feeling good when somebody flirts with you is normal but it can lead to other things very quickly.
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Jan 19
Unless you are also falling for him otherwise you must tell him what you have is just a teacher-student thing. If you are falling for him then go look for another student, you do not want to ruin your marriage right?
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