Are you a jealous person?
By Wise Ghost
@WiseGhots (14606)
January 18, 2019 10:51pm CST
Whether with my family, my friends or my girlfriend, "jealousy" is something that definitely does not suit me. I just think everyone is free to stay or not in my life and I have no right to "arrest" them.
Jealousy leads nowhere and only brings frustrations (you can add here jobs, money and many others examples). Life goes on and keeping someone around (trying to control / manipulate their steps) forced is never a good alternative. 
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18 responses
@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
19 Jan 19
I think there's different types of jealously. Like with people, and then things.
Because I'm not jealous of a single person, never have been. But I am jealous of parents who have their kids, especially those who shouldn't. And of family photos, and get togethers. etc. As I can't have that with my daughter.
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
19 Jan 19
@sharon6345 exactly. I was jealous of kids with dads as a kid too, however im thankful i didnt have one - now.
Sorry for your loss, and your feelings on it back then too
@WiseGhots (14606)
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19 Jan 19
It's a very sad situation, @Courtlynn. I'm really sorry for it.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
19 Jan 19
I have my mood sometimes but I'm usually not a jealous guy.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
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19 Jan 19
It's ok to have mood sometimes (I also have mine). Jealousy is the problem.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
19 Jan 19
@WiseGhots To be jealous sometimes is inevitable. What matter is that it is minimal and controllable.
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@WiseGhots (14606)
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19 Jan 19
@simplfred I understand. But in my case, it's not part of who I am. 
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@crossbones27 (49721)
• Mojave, California
19 Jan 19
I am never jealous. Did you see my girl talking to another man? Who was it? I just want to talk to him, I swear. 
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
25 Jan 19
I must say that sometimes I'm jealous
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
25 Jan 19
@WiseGhots don't worry. I'm not jealous of you
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@fluffy69 (4955)
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19 Jan 19
@WiseGhots being jealous from time to time like when ur wife is flirting or gf flirting with someone is i think reasonable, besides this is me, not you
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@jeanena (2198)
• Bucklin, Kansas
19 Jan 19
In my younger years I was a more jealous person, but as I have gotten older I am only jealous of people who live in warmer places.Jealousy was something I had to really work on .It is no longer a problem for me ,too many more important things in my life these days.
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@PrincessREL (339)
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19 Jan 19
I trained myself out of that emotion. Its one of the worst emotions to feel. But most of the time if your feeling jealous its probably your partners fault. My boyfriend makes me feel secure and i do the same for him. I wouldnt be with someone that would make me feel such negative emotions...i learned that the hard way lol
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@PrincessREL (339)
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19 Jan 19
@WiseGhots haha exactly, so i cant be too mad if i learned something
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@ThreeTeddies (2038)
• United Kingdom
20 Jan 19
A little jealousy can be quite titillating but not if it's taken to extremes
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@Jeanne_KaSaHa (345)
• Indonesia
23 Jan 19
I always thought that jealously is so childish until I myself have a relationship and doing the one thing I hate it. It was an uncontrollable feelings for me at first when I started my relationship. But then I got used to it and I trust him. So now, my jealously is not so bad like when I started it.
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@allknowing (138001)
• India
20 Jan 19
Jealousy I am told is a disease and can be cured. I am not jealous.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
19 Jan 19
There is a degree of jealousy in all people.
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