Tales of the Village - being wrong when you think you're in the right

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Our village supermarket is a cause of a lot of traffic controversy due to the parking area not being big enough for the number of people who want to use it. This leads to some terrible parking on the roads nearby, and sometimes to tail-backs of people wanting to turn into the car park. Earlier this week we say the most ridiculous traffic 'stand-off' in the road nearest to the car park. Traffic in both directions was queuing to get into the parking area. Drivers wanting to go up or down the road were caught up behind drivers trying to get into the car park. Tempers were fraying. A lady in a small red car was so relieved when she could finally continue her journey along the road that she went to pass a parked car on her side of the road, only to find her way blocked by an 'alpha male' in a larger car going the other way. Technically if you checked the 'Highway Code' he was in the right and she should have given way to him coming up the road but after waiting ages to get out of the waiting cars, she'd slightly jumped the gun. The man was a complete macho meat-head and refused to let her through despite the fact that once he passed the car, he would only be joining another line of cars. He refused to back up and let her through, rolling down his window to hurl abuse at her. Yes he had the bigger, flashier car. Yes he was technically in the right. Yes she hadn't really followed the rules but letting her through would not have delayed him in the slightest. We carried on down the road - though I was SO tempted to turn back and tell him what an absolute silly ass he was being. My husband stopped me. He was probably right to do so. Sadly some people get so hung up on rights and wrongs that they totally forget their manners and their sense of perspective goes right up in smoke. He was technically right but oh so morally completely wrong. I'm glad I don't need to drive to the shops. I am not sure I want that much drama in my life.