Thinking of my husband / myLot

South Africa

February 1, 2019 1:04am CST

Throughout these trails I think its my husband that is suffering the most. He works his behind off every day and still doesn't get the payment for it. He is solely responsible for all payments and he just doesny grt yo everything. I think he is severly depressed and with me also having depression i just dont know how to help him. Its killing me that i cant hdlp finansiolly or emotionally

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6 responses

Hope

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

1 Feb 19

Trials can test what kind of people we really are. They can refine us and make us better.

Sue

@Pixilove (89)

• South Africa

1 Feb 19

But it really is a painful process :(

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Hope

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

2 Feb 19

@Pixilove That is why it called a trial and not a breeze.

Laurel (L_B)

@Happy2BeMe (99380)

• Canada

1 Feb 19

I am sure that he understands. We marry for better or worse and we get through the not so good times leaning on each other. There will be better days ahead.

Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130218)

• Israel

1 Feb 19

@Pixilove I am so so sorry for your situation and your husband's as well.

Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171927)

• Agra, India

1 Feb 19

I understand that coping with financial issues is one big trouble of life. Support each other and try to pass this phase. Nothing in life is permanent

Arnold Nangis

@ARN4567 (1061)

• Baguio, Philippines

1 Feb 19

I think being there to love, serve and comfort him in these hard times is already a help for him, I hope...and talk things together, be open to one another and to prayer...

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Arya

@yoalldudes (35037)

• Philippines

1 Feb 19

Appreciate him for his efforts. Try looking for part time job online after learning new skills in youtube etc.