My face belongs to me?
By RedBurnet
@redurnet (1798)
United Kingdom
February 6, 2019 6:01am CST
We live in a world where everyone seems to have a smartphone. People love to use their cameras to take pictures and videos so they can retain the memory of the occasion or perhaps post pictures to social media to show off the happiness in their lives. I enjoy doing this myself. However, I'm quick to put my device away after a short period so I can experience real things and not through a screen.
What worries me about smartphone use is that I've occasionally had my picture taken when I didn't authorize it. The first time it was a childhood friend with whom I once had an innocent teen romance. I didn't dare confront him about why he snapped me. He stayed pals with our childhood gang and I didn't so perhaps he wanted to show them what I looked like twenty years later. Or maybe he simply wanted the picture for personal use. Either way, he should have asked me.
Another time a total stranger took a picture of me after staring at me for a long time. He was being very strange and was wearing a hooded top and lingering around me. I didn't feel at all comfortable and left the area quickly. Another time a drunk man in a bus stop took my picture as his friend laughed and told me that he enjoyed having a "personal collection" of photos of women.
I suppose it might have happened more often without me even realising it. It's probably inevitable that we are going to be on someone's Instagram post in the background by accident but it's a different matter when people are taking your picture on purpose without your consent. My face belongs to me, doesn't it?
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
7 Feb 19
Some people who took your photos without your concern are so unethical! If you had the chance you should had asked them why, or you should really walk away from them; they might have bad intents. That's the danger of the smartphones; one can not always be safe. Maybe you are so beautiful that's why they had that interest in you.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 Feb 19
I suppose, you have a pretty face that is why some men would always steal a photo of you.
But yes, permission should be asked if one has to take a picture of you. It's unethical to snap a picture of a person without asking permission from that person.
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@autoassign (263)
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8 Feb 19
Yes I feel you. The worst thing that can happen is if they make a social media account with your face on it and pretend to be you asking money to all your friends saying that there is an accident and else is history. It happens very often in the world of internet.
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@snowy22315 (180472)
• United States
26 Feb 19
Oh how very odd. I would not like that at all!
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
6 Feb 19
I'm sorry your picture has been taken like that without permission. I'm sure I'm in the background of some but I have never had my photo taken (that I know of anyway) without my consent.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Feb 19
I don't like it when strangers take my photos without my permission. Its not cool at all.
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