Single vs In a Relationship
By Sweet_Kitty
@sweetys_kitty (167)
Philippines
February 9, 2019 9:06pm CST
It's the time of year once again.
I can say, I am better off alone without a partner. I just got tired of Love, I guess. Being single means, more time for your family and friends, more savings, you are focused with your plans and free from stress brought by jealousy and doubts when you are in a relationship.
Oh geez. To each its own. This might be true to you but it's just me a matter of saying, just lost confidence with Love.
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@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
10 Feb 19
If you have a partner it is good if you can really get along well and give and take in your relationship.And if you are single you have plenty of freedom also.
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@sweetys_kitty (167)
• Philippines
10 Feb 19
But it's not always like that. I've been in to relationships and I've come to a realization that it is a lot peaceful and you become productive and I've improved a lot: myself, career when I decided to end the relationship for more-than-a-decade with my ex. Though honestly, at times you miss having someone who will make you feel loved. :(
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@janethwayne (5191)
• Philippines
10 Feb 19
@sweetys_kitty That will come still for you in the right time.Don't worry.
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@sweetys_kitty (167)
• Philippines
10 Feb 19
That's ok. I've spent more than a decade from ex. And I was the one who broke up with him. In His time, you'll get over him. You just have to focus your time on something productive while waiting for the right guy. I wish you all the best @Nana49.
@pumpkinjam (8709)
• United Kingdom
6 Apr 19
My partner and I actually met each other at a point when we had both decided to give up on relationships! We had different reasons and different circumstances. I had decided to focus on my family and my friends. All of the things you have said here - time for family and friends, savings, free from jealousy, etc. - are all things that my partner actually encourages. I've done more since being with him than I'd ever done before, and I have more friends. I know I am very very lucky, though, to have met such a wonderful partner who makes me enjoy being in a relationship. We've been together for 5 years, getting married this year, and I wouldn't be without him.
Saying that, I did enjoy the time I spent on my own!
