Update on Absent Member

@CarolDM (203422)
Nashville, Tennessee
February 12, 2019 10:57am CST
Yesterday I asked if anyone had head from @Couarge7. She had not posted in a while and all of her discussions had been deleted. We have talked through email in the past. I sent her a message asking if she was ok. I also want to respect her privacy, as anyone else. Just concerned. I received a reply from her that was fine and was taking a break from the site. For those who asked and were also concerned, just wanted to update you on what I found out. When you are talking in a public forum such as MyLot I understand about respect and privacy, but I just wanted to check on her and she answered.
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@JudyEv (339931)
• Rockingham, Australia
12 Feb 19
That's good news. You can't help but worry about people when you don't hear from them for a while.
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@vandana7 (100282)
• India
13 Feb 19
Did you worry about me Judy or did you think good riddance to Indie rubbish...be honest. I am told Aussies are brave. Adam Gilchrist is one of my favorite cricketers.
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@JudyEv (339931)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Feb 19
@vandana7 I don't always notice that someone is missing until they come back. Adam Gilchrist lives across the road from my sister-in-law.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
You are absolutely right.
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@sallypup (61101)
• Centralia, Washington
12 Feb 19
That's good to hear. I'm glad she is fine.
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
12 Feb 19
I agree.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
Yes same here.
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@allknowing (136406)
• India
12 Feb 19
We have been regularly interacting.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
Hopefully she will return.
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• United States
12 Feb 19
I am glad to hear that she is just taking a break. This site is a family, it really is, and I hate to hear when one of my favorite "family members" is not here. I'm just glad that she is okay.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
Yes I was glad too. I feel the same.
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• Peoria, Arizona
12 Feb 19
Glad to hear she is okay and that was very sweet of you to reach out to her. A break from a site like mylot is always so needed that is why I am not on it every single day that would be crazy. There are just so many people and so many opinions that I just cannot. And also it is just good to take a break from the internet in general and just refresh!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
You are right. This is a great supportive community. We all need breaks.
@dya80dya (36657)
12 Feb 19
I am glad that she is ok.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
Yes indeed me too.
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@maezee (41988)
• United States
12 Feb 19
Glad she is ok!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
Yes me too!
• Valdosta, Georgia
12 Feb 19
Thank you for updating, wish I had her email. Can you let her know i am thinking about her and praying for her please? She is most definitely missed. =(
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
I will definitely let her know.
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@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
13 Feb 19
I am glad she is fine. The day I am going to take a break I will remember to inform my friends here.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
Me too Anna, I was relieved.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
12 Feb 19
thank you and glad that she is doing fine.Many of us take a break now and then.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
You are very welcome. I agree.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
12 Feb 19
Glad she is ok, why did she delete all her posts though.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
12 Feb 19
@CarolDM I understand
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
Have no idea, I asked no questions.
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@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
12 Feb 19
Thanks for the update, and it is good to know she is fine. I hope she will come back.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
I hope so too.
@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
13 Feb 19
Glad to know that she is fine. Yes we do get worried about if an active member is absent for too long. Thanks for the update.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
16 Feb 19
@CarolDM Very true! Totally agree. It becomes a part of you over the period of time.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Feb 19
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
You are right. This is a great supportive community.
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• Santiago, Chile
12 Feb 19
It speaks so good of you at being concerned of a frequent mylotter. I remember @Courage7 and I will miss her, hopefully she comes back quickly from this break!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
You are so kind Jose, I would try to find you as well if you went missing. :) Seriously, I had her email and sent her a message. Thankfully she responded. I was concerned.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
@jvicentevalera I just tend to be like a mother to others I guess. You are very welcome.This is a great community.
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• Santiago, Chile
13 Feb 19
@CarolDM Thanks Carol, I know you would! Thanks for spreading such good and contagious kindness. People like you make mylot greater! I hope you have a pleasant and comfy evening. Have sweet dreams, good night!
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@vandana7 (100282)
• India
13 Feb 19
Nice to hear she is alright. I rarely go missing for a couple of days at a stretch. I may not remain hyper active, but I do come down and say hello to a couple even if I am busy or tired.
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@vandana7 (100282)
• India
15 Feb 19
@CarolDM It is really. It is one hell of a family.
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
You are right. And I am learning this is a great supportive community.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Thank you for updating us. Glad to hear that she is doing good and just wanted to take a break for awhile. Please tell her we miss her here and look forward to her return.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
@CarolDM thank you so much. Yes it is.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
I will do that Laurel. This is such a great supportive community.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
12 Feb 19
That's so good that you heard from her, I was wondering also as we talked all the time..but I can understand that people need a break from things. Thank you for sharing.
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
13 Feb 19
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
Yes indeed. You are very welcome.
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@wunnam (552)
• Ghana
13 Feb 19
That is very nice, as human this is how we should behave towards each other. It brings love among us also have reward from God Him self.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
I agree with you. This is a great community.
@fluffy69 (4955)
13 Feb 19
Kindly give her my regards, maybe she is very stressed for the last few days. Thanks Ms. Carol.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
13 Feb 19
I will do that my friend. You are welcome.
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@didinedhia (8470)
• Algeria
12 Feb 19
Oh thank god she is okay!!!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
12 Feb 19
Yes I was relieved as well.
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• Algeria
12 Feb 19
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