Feeling anxious....

@Happy2BeMe (99380)
Canada
February 13, 2019 9:12am CST
I never made it into work today and it is already 11 am. The storm is still going strong but I am having extreme anxiety about not making it to work. I know there are a few coworkers who made it in and I feel like I should be there. It would be nice if I could just relax and enjoy a snow day but it is causing me so much anxiety being home knowing I should be at work. Still cant figure out how i would get there because there are no buses, no cabs and they still haven't plowed the roads where I live and now it is freezing rain on top of the snow.
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@LadyDuck (471498)
• Switzerland
13 Feb 19
You should not feel anxious or stress too much, the weather is bad, the roads dangerous, just relax.
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@Fleura (30411)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe That's good, I imagine that the customers also cannot get there.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
@Fleura no when I talked to my co-worker he said there was nothing going on there
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
I called and talked to one of the guys at work who was there and then I felt better. He told me not to bother coming in because he thought they might close early.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Feb 19
Do not go to work.If you feel this way.Your driving will be bothering you.Stay home period
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
You are right. I decided to stay home.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Here too much is cancelled and closed. I will try going out for a little walk and see first-hand how bad it really is. Ciao!
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe It was a bit slippery and at times I had to walk on the street because some sidewalks had not been cleared of snow and after 20 minutes I took a bus that passed by. It was a bit risky to keep walking.
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Bad in Montreal also.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Be careful
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@Tina30219 (81948)
• Onaway, Michigan
13 Feb 19
Try to relax it can’t be helped you can’t be there.
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@Tina30219 (81948)
• Onaway, Michigan
14 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe Glad to hear it
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Thanks..I feel much better now that what would have been my work day is over.
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
13 Feb 19
Stop being anxious! It's not your fault! What were you supposed to do, dogsled to work?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
lol never thought of that one
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
13 Feb 19
I'm sorry to hear this, I hope that your anxiety calms down and that you will be able to enjoy your day.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
@hillhjill thanks
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
I am feeling better now that it is getting close to the end of what would be the work day
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@hillhjill (23717)
• United States
13 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe that's good that you are starting to feel better.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
13 Feb 19
Your life is worth so much more than any job! You know that. I hope you're enjoying the day, it's a blessing!
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• Valdosta, Georgia
14 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe I'm glad to hear that!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Thank you Jennifer I was much more relaxed in the afternoon
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Skip the anxiety, it is much more intelligent to stay home on a day like this one. Now, you go and enjoy the rest of that day at home!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Thanks I felt much better in the afternoon
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@wolfgirl569 (106478)
• Marion, Ohio
13 Feb 19
Hope you relaxed and enjoyed your day. It is not worth putting yourself in danger to go.
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@wolfgirl569 (106478)
• Marion, Ohio
14 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe Glad to hear that you did relax.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
14 Feb 19
The afternoon was much better once I was able to relax
@TheHorse (218967)
• Walnut Creek, California
13 Feb 19
Sounds like a reasonable day to stay home. Are you being treated for anxiety?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
14 Feb 19
No I'm not. I don't have it that bad but it does bother me sometimes.
@JudyEv (340286)
• Rockingham, Australia
13 Feb 19
It sounds an impossible task. Worrying about it won't help - like you don't know that duh but no-one can expect you to get there under the conditions you have.
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@JudyEv (340286)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe Oh that's good.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
I called worked around noon and they reassured me that there was nothing going in there and they would probably my be leaving early so I felt a little better.
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@Courtlynn (67083)
• United States
13 Feb 19
I'm with Anna, John and Alfredo. Try to relax.
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@Courtlynn (67083)
• United States
13 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe oh that's good.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
I am trying. I called work again and the guy working there said not to worry about it that he thought they may leave early.
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@dya80dya (36658)
13 Feb 19
Don't stress too much. You can't go to work even if you want. I understand why you feel like this, but this too shall pass.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Thank you
@fluffy69 (4955)
13 Feb 19
How many days have you been absent from work?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
I haven't missed a day in almost two years
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
@fluffy69 nope I am not a manager..there are no promotions with the company I work for
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@fluffy69 (4955)
13 Feb 19
@Happy2BeMe you must be a manager because you were promoted for your hardwork and dedication.
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@snowy22315 (180931)
• United States
13 Feb 19
It will be OK. Good grief..they can't possibly hold that against you. Make a cup of tea..and relax.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Thanks I am trying.
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@dodo19 (47317)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
13 Feb 19
I'm sorry to hear that you're having a rough time. Anxiety is definitely hard.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Yes it is.
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@crossbones27 (49491)
• Mojave, California
13 Feb 19
Its what corporate world does takes the humanity out of life. When you get older, you will say I am good, its your ways not working and call them out when necessary. They make us feel anxious for no reason. Hey boss I may not be there now but least be there tomorrow to keep this company moving.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
Yes everything found at is so right.
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@Hate2Iron (15727)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
We just finished shoveling... and found 2 inches of ice under the snow on our driveway. If everything else is cancelled... I would just wait it out!!
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
That is what I decided to do
@Fleura (30411)
• United Kingdom
13 Feb 19
Can you call the people who are there and ask if there's anything you can do to help out from home? Like make some tel. calls or anything?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
I did call..there really isn't anything I can do from home.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
13 Feb 19
I used to be the same way when I was working. When the weather prevented me from getting to work it would make me so anxious that I couldn't enjoy being home. I am sure that you place of work is aware of the conditions. Hopefully you can relax enough to enjoy at least a little part of your day.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
13 Feb 19
I am trying to.
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