Mylot is a great place for shy people

@dya80dya (36769)
February 18, 2019 1:56pm CST
I am a shy person. I prefer to express my feelings and thoughts online. Many times family or friends don't understand my problems. Here I can find people with similar problems. I thought that I was the only one who has many problems. But I have things in common with so many people. Do you agree with me? Is mylot a great place for shy people?
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• United States
18 Feb 19
Mylot is a great place for a lot of different types of people, not just shy. Of course shy people would benefit the most from this site.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
I agree, shy people benefit the most. But it's a great place for all people.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
18 Feb 19
MyLot is a wonderful place for shy people and not shy people, too.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Yes, but shy people benefit the most.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Feb 19
The anonymity of online was made for the shy.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
I agree. Extrovert people have friends in real life, not virtual friends.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
18 Feb 19
So glad you have us here to listen!
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
I am glad that I found friendly people here.
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@Nana49 (3399)
• United States
18 Feb 19
I am a shy person too ..i am like you and can express myself better online or even in text ..i think because it gives me time to think about what i want to say And i get to chose the ones i respond to and that Makes it easier because i choose the ones i feel.i can add something too .. When otherwise conversations for me are sometimes hard. .
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
For me conversations with strangers are very difficult. But online it's easier to talk to strangers.
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@sianadrl (227)
• Venezuela
18 Feb 19
Omg yes, I feel so much more comfortable sharing my ideas online rather than face to face with people, I find this page great for that
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Are you a shy person?
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19 Feb 19
I agree with you Daniela most of us feel comfortable writing online, expressing ourselves
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
18 Feb 19
Agree, you can hide behind the cloak of the internet
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
19 Feb 19
@dya80dya no, I'm not a shy person, but it depends on the situation sometimes.
@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Shy people benefit the most. Are you a shy person?
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@sofssu (23662)
19 Feb 19
I think a lot of shy people use various sites online to express themselves. I have come across so many others on different sites and yes mylot is one of them.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Yes. I can't express myself in real life because no one understands.
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• Midland, Michigan
19 Feb 19
Maybe being here chatting will help you leave some of your shyness behind. I was shy until I was 26, but not as much since.
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• Midland, Michigan
21 Feb 19
@dya80dya I think I began overcoming it when I was still in school. I used to enjoy spending time with my extended family like cousins, but I hated walking into a room when we first arrived if others were there before us. Eventually, I'd tell myself that everyone wasn't looking only at me like I once thought and over time I became less self-conscious. Then later, when I turned 26 I got involved in studying the Bible, which I wasn't taught nor ever read before that and I believe that helped me to over come a lot of that shyness even more. There are probably a lot more shy people in the world than those that aren't shy and a lot of people have learned to hide their shyness from others. If you know that, it sort of helps you think of things differently.
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@dya80dya (36769)
21 Feb 19
@MarshaMusselman Studying the Bible helped you to overcome shyness? I didn't expect this. In what way it helped you?
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
I am also young. How did you overcome it?
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• Dallas, Texas
18 Feb 19
It's the best place for shy people.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
I am glad that you agree with me.
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• Dallas, Texas
19 Feb 19
@dya80dya , One of my big sisters was a shy person, so I fully understand the nature of that type of person. I also have a big brother, who is an extrovert and I let him do most of the talking. I know different types of people because I have worked in retail. I am extroverted acting and when I am online I can focus on the individual. If I am talking to people in real life, it's like a talking competition. If I can I try to get a word in edge wise. After an analysis on my own, I guess I am actually more of an introvert. I guess I get carried away sometimes in public and like to talk a lot to people, but this is more of a manic tendency rather than an extrovert tendency. I looked at the chart and was surprised to see that I fall into the introvert category although, when I am in high spirits I tend to like to talk to people. So that is why I figured I was an extrovert. I guess I was wrong about that in retrospect. Two main points I need to bring up in this conversation. My big sister who is shy does not like using the computer and does not do social media. She is a very private person, and my older brother who is the extrovert, spends more time with people in real life and hardly ever bothers with the internet.
@acelawrites (19272)
• Philippines
18 Feb 19
I agree with you; am shy too (sometimes depending on the situation). And myLot offers us a venue to share anything within bounds of the rules here. Do not worry, everyone has his/her issues or problems.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
I noticed that people have similar problems. At least I am not alone.
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• Agra, India
19 Feb 19
Yes...this is one thing that mylot made me aware of. Everyone has problems.
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• Agra, India
19 Feb 19
@dya80dya yes....I realized I'm not the only one facing financial issues
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Yes, and many people have similar problems. Sometimes we think that we are the only ones with those problems.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Feb 19
I agree because you dont have to talk or interract on video.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
We have to type. It's easier to write here because we are not judged. Bullies can be blocked.
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@Janet357 (75646)
19 Feb 19
@dya80dya yes. You are right. Then bullies will complain when they get blocked hahha
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• Varna, Bulgaria
18 Feb 19
I agree with you! I really appreciate every person from here. Everyone is do kind and helpful and I feel like we all are one big family where we can find always what we need. :)
@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
It's true. People are very friendly here.
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@allknowing (137989)
• India
19 Feb 19
I agree with you but I am an extrovert (lol)
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Good for you. I think it's better to be an extrovert.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
16 Jul 19
Mylot is great for shy people.
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@dya80dya (36769)
18 Jul 19
Are you also shy?
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
18 Jul 19
@dya80dya Yes, i am.
@debjani1 (7202)
19 Feb 19
Yes its the best place for shy people. Every person has lot of problems. You are not the only one. Be frank with us. Keep writing.
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Yes, I will keep writing.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
19 Feb 19
What is wrote is so correct
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
So you agree with me. Are you a shy person?
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
19 Feb 19
@dya80dya I am not shy.. but for those who are shy, they can easily communicate here as this is not a face to face conversation
@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
19 Feb 19
Probably.I do not know because I'm not shy
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@Clemensau (273)
19 Feb 19
Even so, interacting online is funny because in any way some kind of expectation and some kind of response get involve and it makes so interesting to know what anyone else out there think about you are telling
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@dya80dya (36769)
19 Feb 19
Yes, I like to interact online because in this way I also improve my English.
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19 Feb 19
@dya80dya yes everybody has a motivation to write,this site is wonderful...
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