What would you avoid?
By sofs
@sofssu (23662)
March 7, 2019 8:06am CST
We write about all kinds of things here on mylot. Some discussion are personal in nature, some are about hobbies, some are adventurous in nature, there are others about work online /offline , then you have entertainment based discussion, politics based discussion and the inevitable religion based discussion.
Is there any kind of discussion that you hate immensely or you totally avoid.?
Do you have a preference for any specific kind of discussion?
Personally speaking I avoid politics like plague, I respond to some religious discussions but not always.
I love gardening or philosophical discussions, but really don't have too much time to write pages and debate.
However, I try to read most of them. How about you?
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22 responses
@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
7 Mar 19
@andriaperry That's the spirit. I'm not saying anything against religion here. Each to their own. I'm only saying something against uninvited preachers and members offering to pray for others without having been asked to do so.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Mar 19
@MALUSE Yes I know what your are saying.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Mar 19
I am very religious but I don`t need it online.
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
7 Mar 19
personally i don't like negative stories about people who are related to the writer, directly or indirectly. sometimes i just scan it and then that's it.
for example, the daughter has lice or nits.
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@Mavic123456 Hmm, true I don't care too much about them too, I read sometimes i offer my comments but most often avoid.
@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
8 Mar 19
@sofssu before when I like to earn I do comment on them.. but now.. I just leave them... you know for me this is too personal.. the family squabbles need not to be discussed here.
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@Mavic123456 I understand. I don't do any personal discussions here. I get a bit uneasy, but some people are fine with it. each to his own.
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@GardenGerty (160626)
• United States
8 Mar 19
I do not jump into politics, although sometimes I read them. I feel that people who share their faith enrich mine. I do not watch television, so I do not know about all the popular shows. I tend to read people I have known a long time, or who motivate and inspire me in some way.
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@GardenGerty A very balanced approach I should say. I have no clue about movies, but OI read them just to keep myself informed. I read most discussion on faith but don't get into commenting.
@allknowing (136089)
• India
8 Mar 19
I avoid discussions that are lengthy. And those that belong to users who never come to mine (lol)
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@WorDazza (15830)
• Manchester, England
7 Mar 19
I don't mind anything really. Although I try not to get involved in religious discussions I sometimes feel compelled to when someone misuses science and scientific quotes to try to give scientific credibility to their beliefs.
Believe what you want but don't twist scientific evidence and quotations to act as 'proof' of your beliefs.
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
7 Mar 19
I think if I avoid topics it would be politics because it turns heated real fast. I think my favorite stuff to write about would be personal things because it's nice to be able to say exactly how you feel and think about things going on without having to worry about family or friends getting into itl
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
7 Mar 19
I have many interests. I'll read anything if I have the time but time is limited so I read here and there.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
8 Mar 19
@sofssu We can make the tea that we like. 
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@1hopefulman Actually I read a lot of discussions, but i avoid controversial stuff. 'Much arguing' as Paul says isn't my cup of tea.
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Mar 19
I read all but only comment or like some. I do not avoid because when I read I learn how a person thinks, how much hate they have in their hearts.
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@andriaperry I read a lot of discussions and respond to some. I personally don't like negativity, anger and people calling each other names.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
12 Mar 19
Not too much personal.
Politics and religion too as I feel they are individual things.
But if you ask me what discussions I enjoy .....I am sure you can guess
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@sofssu (23662)
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12 Mar 19
@responsiveme I guess you love to read about books. LOL
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@sofssu (23662)
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12 Mar 19
@responsiveme Hmm.. Sad that your friend left. Yeah i know that you do love writing about nature and gardening and poetry.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
12 Mar 19
@sofssu he he...Love book discussions. There was an user who read same as me and we would have long to and fro posts on books but she left.
Also love reading about gardens and nature
And those Limerick and poem ones
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@mynameiskate But you are discussing this already LOL
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@snowy22315 (180452)
• United States
8 Mar 19
I don't like discussions that I can't relate to. Some are about a very specific topic, or are written in a way , that I can't understand what they are saying. I don't like discussions of that type.
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@snowy22315 You obviously cannot relate to discussions you cannot relate to or cannot understand. I do find some of them here.. Its hard to respond.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
8 Mar 19
i read them to learn more/become aware, about the topic and inevitably about the person as well
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@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
9 Mar 19
All discussion is okay for me...as long as I know topic of the discussion. And how the discussion written will influence I read or not...
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@isweartokira (3460)
• United States
8 Mar 19
i tend to avoid posting personal things. i just have this anxiety that no one will actually care what i write, so i keep it to myself. i sometimes like reading other's personal posts, though.
and i usually avoid the overly long ones? i'm too lazy lol
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@sofssu (23662)
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8 Mar 19
@isweartokira I have to plead guilty to that, these days I hardly find the time,
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