Would you look back at a comment and comment back, if the person commented to your response on THEIR DISCUSSION after many days?
By Sheali
@Sheali (7461)
India
March 15, 2019 9:56pm CST
Sometimes, when I respond to someone's discussion, I get the response after more than 10 days. It is very rare though. I generally check the comment and also comment back, as I want to see what he/she wrote.
Sometimes, I feel, will they even notice that I commented back on their comment as they anyways saw my actual response after so many days.
It is very rare though. Generally people respond here within 3 days and most within 24 hours.
Would you look back at a comment and comment back, if the person commented to your response on THEIR DISCUSSION after many days?
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32 responses
@Shivram59 (35707)
• India
16 Mar 19
@Sheali I have been a regular visitor of mylot.First I clear my notifications.I comment back on each comment no matter they are on my discussions or theirs and they are old or new.
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@Shivram59 (35707)
• India
17 Mar 19
@Sheali Let them do what they like.You can't do anything about it.As users of mylot we are supposed to respond to discussions we like and comment back on responses or comments we receive.I never care whether others are quick in commenting back to me.What else can I do?
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
17 Mar 19
@Shivram59 I know.. I also comment back..
I just post my views when I experience something different on My Lot and try to see how people react in similar situations..
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
17 Mar 19
That's what I do as well..
But some people may get busy and check the responses on their discussions many days later and comment on those... In that case I wonder if I they would even see my next comment on their comment.. 
It is a chain of comments to a response..
Sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with other discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..
It is a chain of comments to a response..
Sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with other discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..2 people like this
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
3 Jun 19
@DaddyEvil haha you are too late dear. I was wondering how you dig this discussion on getting the notification in my mail box, reading your explanation I understood.
Where you are disappearing in between, why you can't be regular here.
Where you are disappearing in between, why you can't be regular here.2 people like this
@DaddyEvil (137261)
• United States
2 Jun 19
Oh, surely nobody would wait any time to talk to you, Sreekala! 
(You're one of the fun ones to talk with on myLot!)
And yes, I do happen to have a very good excuse for why I'm on this discussion so long after it was written... One of my friends suggested it to me yesterday. I'm just taking advantage of the fact that I'm here to bother a few of my other friends while I'm here. 
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@allknowing (136799)
• India
16 Mar 19
We get notifications on every activity that is visible on our page and yes I will take action.
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@allknowing (136799)
• India
16 Mar 19
@Sheali Every single user get notified but there are some who just do not get back.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
@allknowing That's very rare but yaa.. it happens
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@DaddyEvil (137261)
• United States
2 Jun 19
And do you reply if someone does try talking to you on a very old discussion, Sol_cee? *really grinning at you*
I'll hit your discussions in a few minutes, Dearheart.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
3 Jun 19
@DaddyEvil hey Daddy E! How have you been?
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Mar 19
Yes, I always comment back, even if it has been for many days, or even longer. For reasons that we don't know about, people on My Lot are very busy with other things, that are MUCH more important! Such as family, friends, and their home life. This site is not the center of our world, yet with some it appears to be that way. I didn't check my notifications for about two weeks, when my granddaughter was in the hospital:(
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@kobesbuddy (78882)
• East Tawas, Michigan
16 Mar 19
@Sheali And your views are excellent, I can see your point about this. But, I jump around on this site and try hard to read a bunch of discussions, in about an hour. There are so many writings, I quite often loose track, where I've been or what I've responded to. I love this site though, it's more personal than most other sites I've belongs to. I love meeting new people
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
17 Mar 19
@kobesbuddy I too like it here.. and I also feel I can share my views, which is great
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
Yes, I know... There are many important things.. I personally won't even post a discussion if I won't have time to comment back but that's my personal choice...
Sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with other discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..
I just wonder if they would see my next comment as I comment for people to see that ever.. time doesn't matter..
I anyways respond to the notification, but when ever I experience something different or notice something, I just share my views
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@GardenGerty (160721)
• United States
16 Mar 19
I try to always respond to each interaction, even if it is late.
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. . . life takes over . . . I will just say "I try" @much2say (55686)
• Los Angeles, California
17 Mar 19
@Sheali I'm here in a timely manner this time .
I try to get to my notifications before they fall off the bottom. I can find the comments to my discussions without it, but I might not remember other folk's discussions that fall off - that I do feel bad for. Ah - but that happens a lot on myLot. I guess we just do what we can!
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I try to get to my notifications before they fall off the bottom. I can find the comments to my discussions without it, but I might not remember other folk's discussions that fall off - that I do feel bad for. Ah - but that happens a lot on myLot. I guess we just do what we can!2 people like this
@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
It is fine.. I am just asking..@much2say
I anyways comment back, no matter how late I receive a comment to my response.. I understand people may be away..
I just wonder if they would see my next comment as I comment for people to see that ever.. time doesn't matter
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
16 Mar 19
@Sheali as long as their notifications are on... who knows. why not?
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
Yes.. but you will get the pennies only if that person reacts to your comment..
He/she anyways commented to YOUR OLD response on THEIR OLD DISCUSSION after many days..
What's the guarantee that they would see your next comment to the same response..
Sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with other discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..
I just wonder if they would see my next comment as I comment for people to see that ever.. time doesn't matter
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
16 Mar 19
I try to comment back if I see it in the notifications, however some days I am working, I work 3 jobs, and I cant get back to it.
Are you saying they wrote discussion about your comment on your discussion, days later?
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
I responded to THEIR discussion within a few hours of their posting it... and they commented on my response after many days.. WHICH IS FINE..
I comment back again but just wonder if they would even see that comment or not... I anyways can't remember where I respond or comment after a few days..
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
28 Mar 19
@Sheali Always. People have reasons for taking a bit of time to comment back but I really have to comment back whether or not they will see it again so I feel like I've done the right thing by replying and not ignoring them. It's a shame that notifications disappear after 7 days as sometimes people stay off MyLot for longer than that.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Mar 19
When I have been gone on vacation, I will backtrack through many member posts.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
17 Mar 19
That's fine..
Sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with other discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..
I just wonder if they would see my next comment as I comment for people to see that ever.. time doesn't matter.. as, I won't even remember where I commented after a few days..
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@arunima25 (87829)
• Bangalore, India
16 Mar 19
Yes I do! As long as notifications don't die out, I attend to all of them. We all can be away from here for days or months due to other calls of life. So it is okay to get a delayed response.
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@arunima25 (87829)
• Bangalore, India
16 Mar 19
@Sheali Yes it happens. Sometimes even I ignore notifications for a day as I am in a mood to read more new discussions and respond to them. So I come to attend them later and that might cause some delay.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
Yes, I know... but sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with otger discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..
I just wonder if they would see my next comment as I comment for people to see that ever.. time doesn't matter
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@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
9 Jun 19
I know I many times have been known to take a while responding back to someone even in my own discussions depending on the amount of time that I have to be active here. I respond back to people and it is up to them to choose if they want to respond back to me or not.
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@moirai (2853)
• Philippines
16 Mar 19
The main factor that will determine if I come back to comment on a response after several days have passed is... whether it's still in my notifications or not. 
Usually, if I've only been gone a few days, the notification will still be there and I'll have an easy way to get back to it. If I was gone for a while (say, months) and I missed the notification, then I'm afraid I'll probably not even remember what discussions I left responses on, and I wouldn't know if anyone commented back. (I have the email stuff in settings unchecked, as I check my email even less than I do the mylot site itself. 
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It's easier to go back to my own discussions. And I normally would go back at least the last discussion or so (not so much the ones that are many years old) to see if there are any responses I haven't answered yet. And usually, I would respond to them as soon as I get back.
But right now, there is actually one discussion that I'm purposely delaying going back to. It's a rant about something that still somewhat pisses me off when I think about it, so... I'm still trying not to think about it. One day, when I'm ready, I'll go back there and answer the responders. For now, I'm just posting other discussions and enjoying the rest of mylot. 
Usually, if I've only been gone a few days, the notification will still be there and I'll have an easy way to get back to it. If I was gone for a while (say, months) and I missed the notification, then I'm afraid I'll probably not even remember what discussions I left responses on, and I wouldn't know if anyone commented back. (I have the email stuff in settings unchecked, as I check my email even less than I do the mylot site itself. )
It's easier to go back to my own discussions. And I normally would go back at least the last discussion or so (not so much the ones that are many years old) to see if there are any responses I haven't answered yet. And usually, I would respond to them as soon as I get back.
But right now, there is actually one discussion that I'm purposely delaying going back to. It's a rant about something that still somewhat pisses me off when I think about it, so... I'm still trying not to think about it. One day, when I'm ready, I'll go back there and answer the responders. For now, I'm just posting other discussions and enjoying the rest of mylot. 1 person likes this
@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
I am never gone..
and as my title says..
The situation is that you are aware that someone commented to YOUR OLD response on THEIR OLD DISCUSSION after many days..
sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with otger discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..
I just wonder if they would see my next comment as I comment for people to see that ever.. time doesn't matter
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
17 Mar 19
@moirai Yes, I read that
but here I asked not about your discussion but OTHER'S DISCUSSION where you responded within a few hours but they commented late.. and now would you comment back to that comment.. ..
As, I mentioned I comment but also wonder if they would even read it this time..
Did I confuse you? 
but here I asked not about your discussion but OTHER'S DISCUSSION where you responded within a few hours but they commented late.. and now would you comment back to that comment.. ..
As, I mentioned I comment but also wonder if they would even read it this time..
Did I confuse you? 1 person likes this
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
16 Mar 19
Once in a while I look back on my discussions and try to respond to any that I missed.
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@Sheali (7461)
• India
16 Mar 19
As my title says..
The situation is that you are aware that someone commented to YOUR OLD response on THEIR OLD DISCUSSION after many days.. You had responded on time.. they were late to comment back..
sometimes maybe they overlook a few responses and carry on with otger discussions and come back to the old ones after many days,.. That's what I have observed.. WHICH IS FINE..
I just wonder if they would see my next comment as I comment for people to see that ever.. time doesn't matter
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