Do you like to have your own or just adopt child
By abijan
@abijan (494)
Malaysia
25 responses
@marcypayne (50)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I personally would rather have my own. But I think that if you have the money and dont mind, that adopting a child from another country is the best gift you could give them- a shot at a real life! So if you can afford it- more power to you! This world is already over populated! lol...
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
29 Nov 06
I'd rather to have my own child. A girl and a boy. I'll name the girl Calista. But still have no idea about the boy's name.
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@jmp824 (741)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
I already have my own children. :)
I think to adopt a child is ok for couples who cant really bear a child for medical or health reasons. The adoption should I think be done in a proper and legal way. Wherein there should be proper documents for reference when the time comes.
@Desdemona (1301)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
With all the children in this world without parents, I would definately adopt.
I see no reason to have a child when many need parents.
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@abijan (494)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 06
This is something I can't understand. If you have no medical problem why not your own child. No doubts there are many children in this world are without parents, but compared with your own child, I don't think, there will be any bonding that tie between you and the child.
@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I have 3 biological children and my husband and I are planning on adopting 2 boys from Haiti. After those adoptions go through we would like to adopt a girl ... we're not sure from where. We'd have 6 kids total, 3 girls and 3 boys.
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
29 Nov 06
i will like to have my own child, 3 of them if time permits LOL ...if not, i will go for adoption
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@nana1944 (1364)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I have 1 child who soon will be 43 years old. I am a grandmother and a great-grandmother. I lost 5 babies by my 2nd husband and am very grateful for the one I had. God really blessed me. I was going to adopt a child when I was in my mid 40's but after thinking for 2 weeks and deciding to do it, the mother had adopted him out without telling me. I was very torn up over that. I had talked to attorney and found out what it would cost and everything. I was single but worked in a care home and could afford it.
@apollox13x (225)
• Italy
1 Dec 06
I would like to have my own children
but if I had problem to have my own
I wouyldn't have recourse to medical solution
but I'd prefet to adopt one
@thegood1 (52)
• United States
29 Nov 06
i would like to do both i like to have my own because there is nothing like it . and i would like to adopt as well because of the way i feel about children and how i like to help people i do not think that any child should be with out a family to love and one to love them back
@caseynelicia (323)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Adoption is suck a wonderful thing. I have 2 children of my own and we would love to adopt an older child when time and money permits. Adoption can turn into a long process.
@mariarusella (36)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
i prefer to have my own child to raise...
but if god will me a child that really need my care i will adopt a baby
@protectiva (687)
• United States
29 Nov 06
my brother and i were both adopted, so i am open to either one.
@caseynelicia (323)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Adoption is suck a wonderful thing. I have 2 children of my own and we would love to adopt an older child when time and money permits. Adoption can turn into a long process.