How to overcome loneliness and pain after someone you love past away? / myLot

By Debie R. Balatero

@Jehagirl (90)

April 1, 2019 8:36am CST

I don't know where to start again, I have so many questions in my mind there's no answer..

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Hope

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

1 Apr 19

Welcome to myLot Debie and I hope you enjoy it here! My condolences on your loss. May I ask who did you lose and when?

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Debie R. Balatero

@Jehagirl (90)

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2 Apr 19

thanks Felex ..my father past away last week..so that my mother so sad and lonely i dont know how to comport her cos she's very close to him, she dont know how to start her life with out him..its so hard for me to see my mother cry always..

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Hope

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

2 Apr 19

@Jehagirl My condolences on the loss of your father! How old was he? I have an idea of what you are going through. My mother passed away also but before my father and was glad that things happened that way as it would have been very hard on my mother. Your mother will need a lot of support. Do you live with your mom?

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Debie R. Balatero

@Jehagirl (90)

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3 Apr 19

@1hopefulman yes i live with my mom Felix.. I hate to see her cry it's hurt me more.. My father is 64 years old he past away..

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Sharon

@simone10 (54187)

• Louisville, Kentucky

1 Apr 19

I am so very sorry for you loss. I have had quite a few loved ones pass away and grieving can be different for everyone. Just know that we are all here for you

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Debie R. Balatero

@Jehagirl (90)

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2 Apr 19

thank you Sharon..

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teenal

@teenal (1400)

• Dublin, Ireland

2 Apr 19

Sorry for your loss. I don't think you ever get over loosing someone, you just get used to it and learn to live with it. Perhaps joining a bereavement group might help. You will meet others going through the same thing who understand and probably have the same difficulty and problems coming to terms with it.

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rsa101

@rsa101 (38166)

• Philippines

2 Apr 19

I guess when things like this happens you need to surround yourself with people that do love and care for you. Those that are left here in this world will be the ones that will help you go through life without him/her.

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DEBJANI BASAK

@debjani1 (7202)

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2 Apr 19

Remember the happiest moment with the love ones. Try to do fulfill the dreams in his/her absence. Make new friends.

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Flor Arcayena

@phlor01 (75)

• Philippines

2 Apr 19

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Just go through the grieving process. You can talk to me or anyone if needed.

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@dgobucks226 (35716)

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7 Mar 20

I have lost both my parents now. My Dad most recently in 2018. I don't think you ever completely get over it because your parents have a big piece of your heart. All we can do is live our lives, remember them fondly, recall the good memories you had with them, and continue on. That is what one's you love would want you to do.

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Abigael Jerobon

@a_jerobon (2304)

• Eldoret, Kenya

1 Apr 19

My condolences for your loss dear friend. I understand what you are going through, I also lost someone so important and it wasn't easy. It takes time to accept that they are gone but baby steps do add up to big steps.

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imtiaz ahmad

@Browngoat (16)

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1 Apr 19

start step by step and ask every thing

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