Should I trust her??
By Kim Lee
@Kimily (46)
Qingdao, China
April 11, 2019 7:54am CST
I have a client who used to buy my products . But recently she told me that she actually had cancer and lost her hair after chemotherapy. She had spent a lot of money and could no longer afford my products. She asked if I could give her one. When she had money, she will buy a lot from me.In fact,
I've treated her like a good friend of me. Over the years, we have shared a lot, travel photos, trifles of life etc. I would like to buy the products for her(about $200). But my friends said she was a liar and I shouldn't believe her. What should I do?
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Apr 19
The enemy will always tell us not to do something nice for others. If you want to bless her-then I think you should. And even if she is lying your heart was in the right place and God will bless you for it-He will give it back to you when you need it. =)
It's always good to treat others the way we want to be treated.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
11 Apr 19
@Kimily You're welcome, it's an amazing way to live life. =)
@Kimily (46)
• Qingdao, China
12 Apr 19
@LovingMyBabies Yes?It's a very positive way of life.
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@choijungeun (2631)
• Hangzhou, China
12 Apr 19
If your product can't help her become healthy,and it's very expensive,i think she want to sell it for money to cure her cancer,you can't give her your product.Every friendship is very frail when it contacts with money.
@jrlcentral (2605)
• Roxas, Philippines
11 Apr 19
I heard a similar story before.
Now, since someone already told you that she is a liar, I suggest you confirm her story first. Make it suttle if you can.
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If she is indeed sick, and if the product that she 'wants' is not bad for her health, maybe it would be a good gesture as a friend to give her something.
However, if she is indeed sick, and have spent a lot of money for her medication already, would not it be better if you help her with her medical expenses? The $200 is not a small amount. Well... at least for me.
Again, do it only IF and ONLY IF you have confirmed her story to be true.
Sadly, many people would take advantage of the generosity of others.
@Kimily (46)
• Qingdao, China
12 Apr 19
@jrlcentral Yes,my friend,that is why I hesitate a lot.It is about $200 not $20.I need to confirm if it is true in advance.We think the same thing. I called her yesterday, but I couldn't get through. I'll call him again today.
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@jrlcentral (2605)
• Roxas, Philippines
13 Apr 19
@Kimily have you met her in person already before?
@Kimily (46)
• Qingdao, China
16 Apr 19
@jrlcentral No,we have not met before.She just purchased products 2-3 times from us each year.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
12 Apr 19
@Kimily
I would find out if I were you if she really is not lying to you. If she has cancer it is very hard for her. Why do your friend say she is a liar? Are they saying she does not have cancer? You have a reason not to trust her? You need to ask yourself that.and find out why your friends said that? I do not know her so cannot answer that.
@debjani1 (7202)
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12 Apr 19
I think you should help her. Once she had purchased lot of things from you and always paid for that. She helped you. But its your time to help her. So don't think twice. Just go and help her.
@Joemnd (22)
• Lagos, Nigeria
14 Apr 19
My dear, yes help her. Even if is true that she was lying , God will judge your good intention and give you your deserves reward.
