Do you worry that your kids will get fat?

United States
November 28, 2006 10:09pm CST
My 3 year old daughter is always asking for a snack or if it's time for the next meal. It is not abnormal for her to finish her breakfast and ask for a snack or lunch an hour later. I talked to a dietian about this and she said that any time she asks for a snack I should give her one. She said that I should never deny her snacks, but instead I should choose healthy snacks ... like carrots. I don't think this is a good idea ... what do you think?
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I agree with your dietician. You should give her snacks. At 3 years old, they do not understand eating when they are bored. They understand that they are hungry and it is very common at that age to have growing spurts. These growing spurts require more calories. BUT!!! Just like the dietician, you need to feed her healthy snacks. Grapes, apples, bananas, carrots, cucumbers, watermelon (great source of iron), and other things that will feed her grown...not her sugar intake. My kids love apples and carrots or celery with ranch dip. Cheese is another great snack....fun for them to pull apart too. Do not worry about her getting overweight unless the doctor is concerned. One more thing...make sure she is drinking enough. Sometimes people and kids mistaken thirst for hunger. If you are not drinking and your body is still thirsty, it will trigger hunger to get you to eat. So, try some milk at times...or even juice. It just might do the trick too.
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Probably has something to do with being well read and having 7 kids. But thanks for the compliment!
@medooley (1873)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Man every were I go you are posting top quality postings... You must be trying for the myLotter of the year award!
• United States
29 Nov 06
You could almost be my kid's dietian with the exception that she cautions against too much milk and juice intake, because too much milk might add fat to her diet and too much juice adds sugar. My kids do not get soda (which would be far worse then milk or juice), so they are left with water. They of course do not like water. I'm talking now about inbetween meals (they get milk and/or juice at mealtimes). I'm also worried about teaching her self-control. A three year old has little concept of setting limits for themselves ... that's why I'm the mom. So it's my responsibility to find a balance between allowing snacks and teaching them to eat responsibily. So how do you balance that?
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• United States
29 Nov 06
Kids are like us even at three years of age...they eat when they are bored or feeling stress or blue... Children learn that food is soothing, although most the time they may actually need the added calories of a snack, they burn calories much more effienctly than adults do. If you think about it, her small body can't hold much food at one time, it uses the calories to build muscle, bone, and growth. I think you'll find she will go in 'streaks' eating everything in site for a few days or weeks, then suddenly loose interest in food for a while. Signs of 'growth spurts'. Letting her eat what her body demands as often as it demands it is fine...she needs those building blocks to keep herself healthy.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
My father-in-law has a joke saying when it comes to our daughter, "Will stop crying for food." I have noticed that when she is sad, tired or bored that she does ask for snacks and food. I'm very worried that our society in whole is getting obese and what we teach our children in these early days they will carry with them the rest of their lives. So if I teach her to be an emotional eater she will continue that into adulthood. I am all about healthy snacks and her favorite snack is actually an apple and will choose that over a cookie. She also will order broccoli at a restuarant even if given the choice of french fries. About the streaks ... she doesn't go on streaks!!! She is always hungry and never stops eating!!
@rherdey (966)
• United States
30 Nov 06
Oh yes if it is a healthy snack there is nothing wrong with that. I know I feared also with my children but as long as they are active and not sitting in front of the TV all the time or on the computer all the time they will need that to grow. Good healthy snacks are good...
• United States
30 Nov 06
What if your kids are eating constantly ... even healthy snacks are not good in excess!
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I am like you, I don't think giving them snacks all the time is good, even healthy ones, because if they just ate we know they are not hungrey, I try to give mine a snack about 10:00 and then lunch at 12:00 and then snack at 3:00, so they are on more of a schedule, but with toddlers that may be hard, good luck.
@medooley (1873)
• United States
30 Nov 06
We also try to have scheduled snack times. For the most part it works pretty well. A scheduled is a good thing to have with a young one.
• United States
30 Nov 06
See that's the thing, my 3 year old will literally ask me for a snack as she's putting her cereal bowl in the sink. I will offer more cereal, or toast and she won't go for it. Or if I do make it she'll take a few bites and the rest goes to waste. Today I offered carrots and she ate 3 baby carrots before she started getting more specific as to what she meant by snack!! :)
@mkirby624 (1598)
• United States
30 Nov 06
has she eaten junk food before? Like chips or anything like that?? I think you should sit down with her and explain to her that junk food may be tasty but it isn't good for her and that she can only have it in small portions with a healthy meal, but if she wants to put her breakfast away to get a snack, it will have to be a healthy one. I know she's just three, but she's old enough that you can begin to reason with her
@lilmissy (481)
• United States
29 Nov 06
healthy snacks are good and hard ones strengthen the jaw of children, denying them the extra food needed in growth spurts is not good but feeding them to comfort them is worse
• United States
29 Nov 06
So what's a mom to do?
@mkirby624 (1598)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I think the doctor is right about this. Give her the snakc, but get her used to healthy snacks like fruit or raw veggies. This way, as she gets older, she have already become accustomed to healthy foods and may choose those over junk food for in-between meals. I always ate apples for snacks as a child, and, today, I would much rather sit down with a bag of grapes than a Snickers bar. Does she play a lot? She may have a high metabolism and her breakfast is gone in an hour. I was the same way as well. My body sucked up all the food I ate because I had so much energy so I was often hungry between meals.
• United States
30 Nov 06
She plays alot, but usually low energy games like dolls and house. Not burning a whole lot of calories that way!
@kutchi (12320)
• Pakistan
29 Nov 06
yes I lll
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Oh gee! Another cliff-hanger!!! Can you feel the suspense mounting? hahahahahahahahaha
@lr5451 (224)
• India
29 Nov 06
no,they are conscious about what they take
• United States
29 Nov 06
Do you really think that they are? They really don't have any idea in my experience. I have seen children eat to the point of vomitting.
@fl0urish (5384)
• India
29 Nov 06
you should follow doctors advise they can understand better then us shez still young so she may get fat even if she gets it will be recovered as she grows..so dont worry and give her snacks when ever she asks
• United States
29 Nov 06
I really hope that she doesn't get fat though. I would love her to be healthy and learn at a young age how to have a healthy lifestyle.
@medooley (1873)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I sure do! I hope that my kids do not get fat so they will stay healthy. I don't know if I agree with never denying your child a snack, but I do agree with the healthy snack. Of course you have to give them something sweet every now and then.
• United States
29 Nov 06
Um, it's my understanding that the sweet snacks should be left for the mom. They should be hidden in a secret drawer or cabinet so that when mom is having a rough day she has something to look forward to at nap or bedtime. :)
@raj0019 (2623)
• Argentina
29 Nov 06
No, bcoz my health is naturally slim. SO, my kids will born with same properties. I tried mmany times to eat alot and get some fat on my bones, but i was totally unsuccessfull :)
• United States
29 Nov 06
You're a lucky guy! I wish I had that problem! Hopefully the woman that you have children with will also be healthy so that you will pass that on to your children.
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@alex512 (128)
• United States
30 Nov 06
the healthiest way to eat is 6 small meals a day. having healthy food in your system keeps your metabolism going and gives you energy. as long as she's eating small, healthy meals, snacking is more healthy than not.
• United States
29 Nov 06
My opinion, based on genetics in my family, is that children 4 and under who are chubbier or on the fat side tend to be skinnier when the hit adulthood and vice versa. So no, I'm not worried. I like my fat kids ... I wish they were fatter!
• United States
29 Nov 06
Genetics are a funny thing ... for instance is your partner's family the same way? And what if you and your partners genes together "warp" and produce something completely opposite? Good to hear that you love your fat kids, I'm sure that they love you very much too!
@Daoussis (460)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
yes, so u make them do sports etc.
• United States
30 Nov 06
exercise is very important for little ones isn't it? even for us big kids!
@Meljep (1666)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Healthy snacks are a better alternative. Denying food to kids at that age may lead to them sneaking food, which sets up bad habits for later in life. She may be going through a growth spell and may need the extra calories.
@rohit55_56 (2297)
• India
29 Nov 06
no.......i don't have any kid.....
@annsweets (2046)
• United States
30 Nov 06
my 3 year old eats alot too, she's always asking for snack.its a good idea to keep healthy stuff on hand.
@abagslife (1212)
• Italy
29 Nov 06
i have no child
• India
29 Nov 06
no i am not woorry because i dont have child