Do Women dress up to please men...?

@Aansh13 (11405)
New Delhi, India
May 3, 2019 8:16am CST
My friend had a debate with me on this, he said all women dress up for men, to please them, so that they find them appealing. I mean seriously..??? I am not one of those. He also mentioned that women dress up to make other women jealous.... Oh... This was even funnier. I didn't agree to that either. I usually don't dress up... As in glamorously or like too loud, but at times when I do... It's because I want to, it's never even that I want my husband to praise me or say I am looking beautiful. So all the women out there what's your call...??? And men... Do you believe so...???
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@Mulidi (1981)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
3 May 19
No I don't dress to pleas anyone but myself
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@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
3 May 19
Ditto
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@Mulidi (1981)
• Cruz Bay, Virgin Islands (U.S.)
3 May 19
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@rakski (133028)
• Philippines
3 May 19
That is so funny the way your friend thinks. I dress up for myself when I want it. I usually dress for comfort too. Love yourself first, right?
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@rakski (133028)
• Philippines
3 May 19
@Aansh13 true. I agree
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@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
3 May 19
Absolutely yes! Living yourself first is a prime deal... You just can't love anyone if you don't love yourself
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
3 May 19
Most do and the same as men
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@Hooper69 (69)
3 May 19
Dress up just to feel good and please me.. But of course I have dressed up for my boyfriend on our anniversary dinner dates.. I just love to able to dress up and feel beautiful.. especially if I go a long time not doing so.
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@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
3 May 19
I would agree with you, once a while dressing up for someone or some occasion is usual, but defining it this way won't be correct. Right?
@Janet357 (75646)
3 May 19
No. If i have to dress up that is to make myself more presentable. Am married so i just do it purely for my hubby.
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@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
3 May 19
Hmmm... Presentable is a point to note, we just can't look shabby...
@Babino (5759)
• Morocco
3 May 19
Sometimes i dress up to make good impression, sometimes to make some girls pissed off, sometimes to please someone.. it depends i'm not gonna lie, but i never waste sooo much time getting ready if i'm not in the mood, and to be honest, most of the time, getting ready is more fun than going out actually. if you want to know if a women is dressing up for herself or for the others, you just gotta pay attention to how she looks when she's cozy at home on a day off ;)
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@Aansh13 (11405)
• New Delhi, India
3 May 19
Absolutely! I think I am going to agree with every single word you wrote
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• United States
4 May 19
ah,NOT.i dress to please myself.if men go along with what i have on,good on 'em.
@crossbones27 (50116)
• Mojave, California
4 May 19
I think some women like attention, do know that one. I also know women never dressed up for me. I never dressed up for them. Sure weddings ceremonies, forced on both of us. I hate dressing up, do not want a women trying to make me, which in the end why would I make her. No double standards here. It is a catch 22, because have dated women before do it once. OK did, now dress down. Dammit everyone dresses down at some point. I was exploited by my betters.
@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
3 May 19
Oh. No Never. I just dress up to make myself happy, feel good and look good. Sometimes I remain so casual that's also for myself. For my comfort. No way for men.. Lol.. Yes I wanna look good to all the people in general, not only men or women. Means just to look good. Especially when I've to face people. No makeup though but yes dress up matters to me.
@weevee18 (2065)
• Philippines
3 May 19
No. Not at all.
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• Santiago, Chile
4 May 19
I believe a woman should dress up for herself. If any man would be pleased, or any insecure woman will be jealous of her, it is their thing, not hers.