What should I do?

@joeyaj (81)
Philippines
May 10, 2019 7:15am CST
I have this friend and also my co-worker. He works under me. He is almost 2 years working with us now. But my problem with him is that he frequently asks irrelevant questions that only requires such obvious common sense answers. Sometimes I get irritated by that because he should know those stuffs now. But I still answer him properly but has a deep impact (like saying you should take note of that). And also he has a Bachelors degree. And also graduated as a Magna CumLaude. I am always hesitating every time he asks me those questions if I should be prank on him. I always think of our friendship because If I do that for sure we will be having a war.
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• Agra, India
10 May 19
Sometimes we need to overlook such things if the concerned person is good at heart
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
10 May 19
Yes I am just ignoring these kind of matters about him. But the other bosses also has the same comments about him. They get frustrated whenever he asks those kind of questions.
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• Agra, India
11 May 19
@joeyaj ohh..then that can be a problem. Try yo stay away as much as you can
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
11 May 19
@amitkokiladitya lol I'd like to but I am his supervisor,
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@psanasangma (7289)
• India
10 May 19
Over look and I think sometimes assigning him to do list and marked in his mind may be better
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• India
10 May 19
@joeyaj Then it must be headache to you all and also quite annoying
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
11 May 19
@psanasangma yes it is, it came to the point that whenever he calls my name is our GC because he's got a question, my expression would be "What is it now?"
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
10 May 19
yeah, we already did that, But still he kept on doing it, Like yesterday, He was task to send a declaration page and invoice. But that carrier has the documents in one pdf file, he asks me what should he do So I told him either way, if he will separate those or not, it doesnt matter, But then he answered okay, I will just ask the other bosses since this is a big deal. He always does that. He asks me questions and if his not satisfied he will go to the other bosses but he always gets the same answer.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
10 May 19
He seems to be unsure of what he is doing and may be seeking reassurance that he is doing things right. Best to be kind!
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
11 May 19
No he is just playing safe all the time, so that in the future he can save his self because somebody told him to do that,I have proven it several times that he does that. And to think that he is 2 year older than me
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
10 May 19
That's kinda weird. Maybe he did it to get your attention
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
11 May 19
I'm not sure, His a gay.
• Santiago, Chile
10 May 19
If I were you I'd either tell him to start writing things down, so he can remember, or tell him if there's any issue with his memory. I guess he suffers from short memory, or something.
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
11 May 19
yeah I tell him that all the time, Just the other day, he ask me the same question I think 4-5 time now since he started working with us. So I told him, you better take note of this because this has been going on several times already.
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@joeyaj (81)
• Philippines
13 May 19
@jvicentevalera lol maybe not because he is a full pledge gay.
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• Santiago, Chile
11 May 19
@joeyaj Oh I hope it isn't a mental condition, what if the likes you and that's why he asks you all the time the same question? I mean like if he wanted to be closer to you.
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