Just curious. . .

but you're a girl, you should understand. well, i don't do that, i don't like to complicate life anymore, but i think i can understand why girls do that. sometimes because they feel insecure, like, if i say that, he might think of me like that.. or to play the hard to get, even if she's happy she won't show it, if she wnt something, she has so much pride to ask for it.. stuff like that..

Have no idea about it.. maybe we want them to find what we think actually.

I have no idea, 'cause I don't. I'm confusing enough when I say what I think, so if I tried to say the opposite, it would be very strange indeed

It's called reverse psychology, you may be doing it consciously or unconsciously as a way to get what you want. BTW it's not exclusive to women and neither is it a general trait of all women.

hello kabayan? what do you mean opposite? is it saying yes even though you are not sure or you do not like?

This may be some kind of tactics... But this isn't universal. I am someone who is way blunt...

I have no idea. Perhaps it is merely to confuse men! I know that I confuse my other half at times simply by saying exactly what I mean. I can understand certain things - like when we say we're OK when we're not. We don't want people making a fuss or we're too busy taking care of everyone else. I'm not sure about other things, although I know it took me a while to be really open with my partner - that was a result of not having been able to do it before.

It's not universal. I am very straight forward and have been always like that.