How do you feel when someone ignores you on mylot?

Angie

@andriaperry (117130)

• Anniston, Alabama

20 May 19

@dya80dya No they are not.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

This also happens to me. Maybe they are not doing this on purpose.

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dhia eddine

@didinedhia (8470)

• Algeria

21 May 19

@dya80dya yes i think it's not on purpose

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AKRao24

@AKRao24 (27424)

• India

20 May 19

I don't mind such things! It is the choice of an individual and his/her liking! Basically I come here to have some nice time and keep myself positive after a hectic work! So I never think anything negative about the people and their behavior! Every one has a right to behave the way they want! Where is the problem?

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AKRao24

@AKRao24 (27424)

• India

20 May 19

@dya80dya , That is very natural to happen! If some one is not responding back then how can she or he can expect others to respond? This a site of discussion and we expect a discussion from other members here and not a monologue! am I right?

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

Yes, but have you noticed that people who never answer or reply back are ignored here? Some of them have 1 or 2 answers to each discussion.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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21 May 19

@AKRao24 Yes, you're right. Maybe some people don't understand this site. This site is for interaction, not monologue.

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snowy

@snowy22315 (181948)

• United States

20 May 19

It does happen from time to time. Also, some people might ignore you sometimes and not others. I just move on. Life is too short to get hung up on trivialities.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

Yes. This is not important because here there are lots of people. I can interact with them.

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Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171927)

• Agra, India

20 May 19

There are many other people here. What is the point in running after one who is not worth it.

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Kokil agarwal

@amitkokiladitya (171927)

• Agra, India

21 May 19

@dya80dya yes...we have many other interactive people here.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

It's so true. We have to ignore them.

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weevee

@weevee18 (2065)

• Philippines

20 May 19

Of course I also feel ignored but it doesn’t really make me feel bad. There could be tons of reasons why you’re not getting a reply.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

Yes. I am not feeling bad. It's their loss.

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Porcospino

@Porcospino (31366)

• Denmark

20 May 19

I have noticed the thing you describe. Sometimes I get a comment, but some of the other members who respond don't get comments. Sometimes it is the other way around. If I am interested in the topic I usually respond. It is great to get a comment, but if I don't get a comment and other people do it isn't a big problem.

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Porcospino

@Porcospino (31366)

• Denmark

20 May 19

@dya80dya When it happens if I just find someone else who wants to talk. There are many other members who like to interact.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

Yes, it's not a big problem. They don't want to interact and they prefer to ignore us.

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Jandie

@tech40 (23121)

• Philippines

20 May 19

For me I'm always trying my best to reply to every notification that I received, If there's a response that doesn't have a reply, it means that I didn't notice it,

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Jandie

@tech40 (23121)

• Philippines

21 May 19

@dya80dya Oh yeah, that's kinda weird and sounds new to me, I'm not sure because when I received notification it'll show how many minutes when the response was created and usually it shows 5 mins or 10mins, depends on how fast I saw it, but I haven't encountered any delays in my notification tab.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

This can be a reason. Maybe they don't notice the reply. But I noticed something else. People reply and I don't receive notifications soon enough. I receive them after a few hours. This is weird. Do you have the same problem?

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@dya80dya (36773)

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21 May 19

@tech40 Maybe I am the only one who has this problem.

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Mavic123456

@Mavic123456 (21893)

• Thailand

20 May 19

I just stop coming to their discussions. Although I don't really care but why will I give this person earning when I don't receive my share?

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Mavic123456

@Mavic123456 (21893)

• Thailand

21 May 19

@dya80dya well that's what they want. why waste time on them when we can spend more time some discussions we will surely earn.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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21 May 19

@Mavic123456 I agree. I feel that I am wasting my time when I ask a question and I never receive an answer. But maybe that person didn't see the notification or didn't have time to answer.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

Yes, and most people do the same. People who don't reply are ignored here. I noticed this. They have 1 or 2 responses to they discussions.

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Shizuka

@choijungeun (2629)

• Hangzhou, China

20 May 19

it's normal,we can't always live in narcissism,sometimes,we should learn how to let it go and be tolerant

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

I am very tolerant. How do you feel if you ask questions and people don't answer?

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Alfredo Rossi

@amadeo (111938)

• United States

20 May 19

Good morning.Does not bother me at all.Why should it be.there loss.Nope could care less.

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Alfredo Rossi

@amadeo (111938)

• United States

20 May 19

@dya80dya I really do not get upset.I have to much things going on in my life.Do not need this

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

Yes, they don't want to interact and it's their loss.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

@amadeo Yes, life is stressful enough.

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Hanni Harel

@Hannihar (130213)

• Israel

21 May 19

@dya80dya I would prefer someone ignoring me than blocking me. There are people I just do not like so ignore or stay away from their posts and others I do not answer because maybe in my frame of mind I am not in the mood to read a long post.

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Aanshi Raghava

@Aansh13 (11362)

• New Delhi, India

20 May 19

This could be little disheartening, but I think here on myLot everyone has their own way of dealing with discussions and comments... So I think it's kind of Okay, if people don't response back the same way like you do. Happy myLotting

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

Thank you. I like to mylot. Some people never answer back, but I have to get used to that.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

20 May 19

I know you feel bad, but I do not pay attention to such people.

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@dya80dya (36773)

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21 May 19

@Nevena83 I will stop commenting and asking questions. Why should I ask something if never answer?

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@dya80dya (36773)

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20 May 19

I feel ignored. But I am not feeling very bad. It's their choice.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

20 May 19

@dya80dya Yes, I know you do not feel best about it, but stop commenting on their discussions.

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scarlet_woman

@scarlet_woman (23463)

• United States

21 May 19

more fish in the sea.i don't worry about it.

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Always smiling

@allknowing (137552)

• India

21 May 19

There could be several reasons why this happens. Trying to find out will make you unhappy. Just move on.

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Oshy

@TiarasOceanView (70022)

• United States

22 May 19

If someone ignores me there are plenty more others to speak with is how I see it.

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Juliaacv

@Juliaacv (51452)

• Canada

20 May 19

We all only have so much time even when we are on the site, so I think that has a lot to do with it. What I fail to understand is when we read, like and comment on a member's posts, and do it regularly, but they never come back and read, like or comment any of yours. Is that what you are referring to?

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