Blood is not always thicker than water.
By Bhem
@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
May 26, 2019 6:59pm CST
I and my 4th Brother had a fight yesterday afternoon. I heard my 2nd Brother telling my Mother that my 4th Brother was preparing food again for his girlfriend. While some of us are not yet having our lunch, and our food is too less for us.
I told him about that if he wants to serve his girlfriend food why not buy their own instead of having our food. He got mad and told me that I should get lost and never come back. We fight and exchange words.
For some of the words he told me, I got offended but I did not cry, instead fight for my right as the eldest. He simply against me and sided with his girlfriend who was the one who started it all.
I was offended and promised myself not to help him if he is in trouble. Before I was the one who took care of his needs during his rehab, the one who pays him to get out of the prison twice. And now, because of that girlfriend he renounce me as his enemy.
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@shaggin (72263)
• United States
27 May 19
Oh wow sounds like you were very kind to him when he was in trouble. That is nice he wanted to take care of feeding his girl friend but not at your families expense. If there isn't enough food for you guys he shouldn't be taking it and giving it to the girlfriend.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 May 19
@ihasaquestion
Oh yes, I agree.
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@few00cent (2183)
• India
27 May 19
that's crazy of him...if he cant afford he should not keep gf in first place...better be off working.
do him and yourself a favor...stop helping him out until he realize and becomes more responsible person.
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
27 May 19
I am sorry to hear that.
Words can be offending but the other one doesn't realize that.. Where's her family for food?! -_-
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@infatuatedbby (94914)
• United States
27 May 19
@JustBhem Maybe she feels that he should be her provider even though she works and has family that can help provide for her too.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
27 May 19
@infatuatedbby
It would be okay if my 4th Brother has steady work, but he doesn’t have.
@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
27 May 19
I think you and your family have to come together and tell it very firmly to your fourth brother that he can not do this. He is dependent on you and so he can not bring one more person and force on you. He can move out with his girlfriend. They can live together earning for themselves.
