Is love doesn't matter?
By Jaya singh
@Starkinds (32712)
India
18 responses
@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
4 Jun 19
Why he don't want to marry the girl?
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
4 Jun 19
@Starkinds oh, but that is not a valid reason because like what you said he love the girl.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
4 Jun 19
@resukill22 he loves her but not sure to spend his life with her. May be he thought he would be face some problem during his girlfriend's disability. Now question is , what the girl should do now?
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@raveeen (3457)
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4 Jun 19
You can't call it LOVE if the boy doesn't want to marry the girl just because the girl is some kind of PWD (Person with disabilities). If you really/truely love the person you must accept his/her flaws, accept who she/he really is, what he/she have/haven't, everything about her/him. Whta really doesn't matter in love is the appearance,physical looks, gender and age if you really love the person. Well I guess you can't say that THEY really love each other if the boy doesn't want to marry the girl because she's a disabled person. It's my opinion only. 
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
4 Jun 19
Thanks a lot , it's my opinion too but the boy couldn't take a firm stand. And the girl doesn't want to loose him.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
7 Jun 19
@Starkinds I think it is better to leave the boy, nothing will last long on doing by force. I wish the girl should show the maturity to understand the reality. She will get the right person in her life who can love her deep in heart irrespective of her disability
@Starkinds (32712)
• India
4 Jun 19
The girl is disabled and the boy loves her but not get ready to married her
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
18 Jun 19
@Starkinds My personal opinion on this: Marriage does NOT prove anything. Being married does not prove people love each other. Many couples don't get married and live a happy life together just as couples get married and live miserably. It's not about rings and a signed piece of paper. It's how they treat each other.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60794)
• Perth, Australia
18 Jun 19
@Starkinds I hope it helps in any way. I'm sorry for whatever is going on that made you ask this.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
18 Jun 19
@VivaLaDani13 in front of mylot eyes I'm seeing us to loosing each other and I couldn't do anything. Its so painful
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@ShifaLk (17817)
• India
11 Jun 19
@Starkinds Yes... .. Definitely
No use of staying in a relationship, if doesn't want to marry
@Starkinds (32712)
• India
9 Jun 19
But he should take a firm decision to leave the girl or to do something for their relationship
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
4 Jun 19
I think if the boy really have true feelings for the girl then... He should offer marriage to the girl...
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
5 Jun 19
@Starkinds Then, his kind of love is not yet full.
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
19 Jun 19
The girl should ask him why he doesn't to marry her.
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@bird123 (10643)
• United States
6 Jun 19
God bonds people together through Chemistry. It's mankind who wants the paperwork. In short, if I found True Love, I would not care about anything else.
Communication is Key in any relationship. The couple ought to get together and get all sides out in the open. It might be a simple reason the boy does not want to get married. She might solve the problem by filling in the view he is missing. They need to have a long open talk.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
6 Jun 19
Thank you very much. I can understand you opinion .both are jobless now but the main problem is tha the girl couldn't wait for to getting married because her family problems .she thought they can manage their livelihood if the boy agreed. The time period of their relationship about one and half years.
@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
4 Jun 19
Every love story doesn’t end up in marriage, and every marriage doesn’t have a true love story in it...
@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
13 Jun 19
@Kanubanu everyone should understand this fact... then the life is easy... hehe
@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
4 Jun 19
What is love without a future? Marriage is usually an indicator that you want to commit to a real and long lasting relationship. If the girl wants to be married and the man doesn't, then he should let her go to the arms of the man who would like to marry her.
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@Kanubanu (3094)
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13 Jun 19
I think this is not the true love.Guy was just playing with girl's emotions.Girl must kick the boy because God will provide her something better.I know it's not easy,but this is the right option.
