Trust issues...

@Aansh13 (11362)
New Delhi, India
June 4, 2019 2:03am CST
My best friend lied to me, I know his intentions weren't wrong, he loves me the same... But he did lie... I felt bad, really bad, but somehow I chose to forgive him because I value our friendship more than anything else. Now, I really don't know how to trust him. It hurts me, that I won't be able to trust him the same way. Back of mind I will always have this running, that he lied ...
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Sreekala
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
4 Jun 19
Trust once broken then can't repair it, said but true.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
Agreeing to it
Jandie
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
4 Jun 19
I can understand you, I've been betrayed multiple times by different person, so I never treated them as same as before
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
Yes... This is an issue... You just can't treat them same... Your mind and heart rehearses the same betrayal....
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Jandie
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
4 Jun 19
@Aansh13 Yeah you're right! They gave you lots of pain inside of yourself that's why we change everything on how we treat them, I even barely talk to my friends because I don't know if I can trust them or not.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
@tech40 It's really painful... Can't even explain...
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AKRao24
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
4 Jun 19
It takes a great courage and big heart heart to forgive! You will feel better after forgiving the guilty! Please forgive and forget ....kindly don't brood on the issue! Life is short, enjoy it! Leave no scope for complaints in life!
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AKRao24
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
4 Jun 19
@Aansh13 , I realized so after my recent heart attack bout and and getting saved in that! Life is unpredictable , let us have maximum fun whatever we can have out of it!
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
@AKRao24 Yes! This is true...
Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
That's a motivation... I am so thankful for your words of wisdom
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Hope
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
4 Jun 19
Was the lie serious?
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Hope
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
5 Jun 19
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
Yes... It was...
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
6 Jun 19
@Aansh13 Did he tell you himself that he lied to you? It is hard to get trust back if someone lies. Can you still be friends with him? Do you think in time you mind trust him again? He has to prove his trust to you again.
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
6 Jun 19
@Aansh13 I am happy that that got solved.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
6 Jun 19
He said himself, he explained everything... I can trust him back because i know why he lied... Plus I can never doubt his intentions, he loves me and can never hurt me
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Amanda
@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
4 Jun 19
Can understand you very well. But no one is perfect in this world. Even we have to lie in some situations, may be to protect someone. So don’t feel bad, take it easy. Don’t honk much about anything.
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Amanda
@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
5 Jun 19
@Aansh13 take it easy...
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
Yeah! You are right
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Danna B.
@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
5 Jun 19
Keep the friendship, but think twice next time!!
Jules
@Julie555 (4155)
• Russian Federation
4 Jun 19
It is hard to regain the trust, once it's betrayed
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
I know... I am facing issues
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Manvendra Singh
@maan20 (257)
•
4 Jun 19
It'll be okay with time, I guess.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
Yeah! Hoping the same...
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Twinkle
@Teekaaa (11580)
• India
4 Jun 19
I can understand that . So nice of you that you forgive the person because you value your friendship more. Great!!
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Jun 19
No choice actually.... Firstly he is very important to me... Plus his intentions weren't wrong
AnSal
@AnSal07 (337)
• Canada
5 Jun 19
Sometimes despite moving on it is really hard to let go of things. Out of the thousand things the other person did great, we tend to remember the deceit, lies, and hypocrisy. It is sad but true!
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
5 Jun 19
But really speaking... In context to him... I am feeling better... He explained his action and I trust him once again without even an inch of doubt...
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DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7202)
•
6 Jun 19
Give him one chance to rectify his lie. And tell him not to do the same as once trust will finished, everything will going to be change.
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Aanshi Raghava
@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
6 Jun 19
He did... He explained every single point, I knew his intentions weren't wrong. He loves me and can never hurt me that ways