Do you have real friends on mylot?

@dya80dya (36657)
June 9, 2019 6:42am CST
I was here for 1 year. I thought that some people were my friends, but they disappeared without letting a message. Their account doesn't exist anymore. In my opinion we can't have real friends online. A real friend helps you. Here people are friendly and some of them call us friends, but this word shouldn't be used for any person. Do you have real friends on mylot?
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
9 Jun 19
There are several I would be happy to meet in real life. I'm not sure whether I would call them friends or not but I guess we;d get along. If a person's account disappears it very likely means that they were banned for some reason. If they didn't leave a message, it may have been because they weren't expecting it (or hoping that Admin wouldn't notice!).
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
I understand. So we can't close our accounts if we want.
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya The only way of closing your account (should you want to - and one hopes you don't!) is to send a PM to @GoAskAlice.
@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
9 Jun 19
As we cannot "close" our own account, if the account does not exist anymore it means that Admin closed the account for some violations. There are several on myLot that I consider friends and I would love to meet them.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Can't we close the account if we want?
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@owlwings (43910)
• Cambridge, England
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya Only Admin can close an account. One would need to send him a PM giving a brief reason why one wants to do so. If an account is closed, all of the activity of that person disappears, which might affect the interactions in some discussions, so Admin does need to have a good reason for doing so - other than a serious violation of the Terms, of course.
@LadyDuck (471500)
• Switzerland
17 Jun 19
@dya80dya No, we cannot. As @owlwings explained only Admin can close an account.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
9 Jun 19
I would define a friend as someone that you enjoy being with and so yes I have some real friends here.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya Yes, that too is important! We help, they help and we're both happy!
@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Good for you. For me a friend is someone who helps me when I need help.
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Jun 19
I referred some of my friends but they're no longer active here in myLot, probably because they want a fast money site, and we all know that those site doesn't exist, unless you own a business or you join to investment scheme site.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
I agree. Everyone wants money fast, but this is possible if we have some good skills. All sites I found are slow earning, but as long as they pay, this doesn't bother me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
9 Jun 19
Yes, and they’ve been always concern to me whenever I’m out of the blue.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya And for sure you’ll find a lot of friends here.
@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
This is good. I need some real friends.
@Janet357 (75646)
9 Jun 19
i must say i have many friends here. but my bestfriend is Jehovah God, second.is my husband.
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@dya80dya (36657)
17 Jun 19
@Janet357 This is good. Sometimes God seems to forget some people.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Were you helped by Jehovah? Our family can be what we need. If we are lucky to have a good family.
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@Janet357 (75646)
17 Jun 19
@dya80dya Jehovah helps me every second and of my life. He helps everyone else because He is our only God.
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@snowy22315 (180688)
• United States
9 Jun 19
I have people on here I consider to be my friends, but only one I have exchanged messages with off the site.
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@snowy22315 (180688)
• United States
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya I would say more like acquaintances. One is more of a friend.
@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
This is good. Do you consider them real friends?
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Jun 19
I have friends here. Some of my old friends aren't here anymore, but sometimes we exchange messages outside myLot. A few of them don't participate in the discussions anymore, but they still log in and I get PMs from them every once in a while. That is always a nice surprise.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
This is nice. I hope I can make some real friends here.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
17 Jun 19
@dya80dya I hope that you will find some real friends here. I miss some of my old friends who aren't here anymore, but there are still many nice people here.
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@dya80dya (36657)
20 Jun 19
@Porcospino I agree. Some people here are very kind. Maybe in the future I will find a real friend here.
@ichipink (541)
• Philippines
17 Jun 19
Don't lose hope easily. There are a lot people in my lot. And it takes time for us to build a relationship around here because there a lot of discussions created here everyday. And it's not usual that we encounter the same users in every discussion we participate in. I think it is also the same in real life. Not every person you meet will end up becoming your real friend right? It will still take time. You have to get to know each other first before you can say that he/she is your real friend. Try to participate in a lot of discussions. And constantly check if someone responds on your discussions/comments. You can start building conversations from there. And maybe you could meet someone you'll get along with. As for me, I just got back in myLot after being inactive for a couple of years. I never had any friends here as well because I was not really making real conversations with others. That was my fault. But anyway, I'm planning to stick around here. Maybe I could be your friend.
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@ichipink (541)
• Philippines
23 Jun 19
@dya80dya Patience is the key. Take your time. Make your conversations special. Soon you'll find someone you can get along with.
@dya80dya (36657)
20 Jun 19
I wish we can be friends. But we never know. I participated in lots of discussions and I wasn't able to make a friend.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
9 Jun 19
I have few good friends here .i do miss some people here ,they are very inactive now .
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Jun 19
@dya80dya yeah that's true
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@dya80dya (36657)
17 Jun 19
@Icydoll I also lost motivation to post here, but it came back.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Many people lose their motivation to interact here.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
9 Jun 19
I would feel so lucky if I find real friends here, with that I meant being able to hangout with in person.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
I think it's better to meet them in person. Online people can hide who they are.
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
18 Jun 19
@dya80dya Sadly, that is true.
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@didinedhia (8470)
• Algeria
9 Jun 19
Not yet !! Im wating, im always open
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Maybe you will make some friends here.
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• Algeria
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya yess
@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 19
I believe there are real online friend exist. It is just we have not meet that person. There are someone can find boyfriend/girlfriend via online. So, there is possibility.
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@dya80dya (36657)
19 Jun 19
@Acefun Secret person? What do you mean?
@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Do you have real friends online?
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@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 19
@dya80dya I have not met some secret person yet in any social media. Are you one of them in social media?
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
9 Jun 19
Since I'm only 4 months on the site, I do not have real friends, but there are people I like and who would love to meet and become a real friend. I think I can get real friends online
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Do you have real friends online? I am not talking about mylot. I had some friends, but I knew them in person. I couldn't get real friends online. Maybe you can meet them in the future if they live where you live.
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@LowRiderX (22903)
• Serbia
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya Oh, if you did not mean this site then yes, I have. I met some people in person and we are in great relationships
@May2k8 (18359)
• Indonesia
16 Jun 19
I only have virtual friends here, I am doubt I can meet them in real.
@Torunn (8607)
• Norway
9 Jun 19
I have quite a few online friends, so I think we can make friends online, but meeting them in real life has made it much easier to continue being friends. I've met up with people from the UK, the US, Sweden, Germany and Australia. I'd really miss them if something happened to them, even though I don't meet them regularly. I've only been back here for some months, but there's some people here I would like to meet. And there's some I'd send a message if I found out I had disappear for a while.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
This is good. If you send a message they will not be worried. I would like to find such people.
• Valdosta, Georgia
9 Jun 19
I'm sorry but they probably were banned as Owl said, it wasn't to hurt you I am sure.
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
I can't understand why she was banned. She was a kind person.
@Mamerto32 (2783)
• Canlubang, Philippines
9 Jun 19
For now I'm yet to meet them in real life. But it will be nice to have a chat with them.
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@Mamerto32 (2783)
• Canlubang, Philippines
16 Jun 19
@dya80dya yes, since they are ready to offer advice.
@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Do you consider them real friends?
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@raveeen (3457)
9 Jun 19
A few of them
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@dya80dya (36657)
16 Jun 19
Are they real friends?