who pays for dinner?

@what_now (554)
Canada
November 29, 2006 1:34am CST
on a first date should the man pay or the woman? or the person who asked out should pay? and how do most women feel about guys not paying for them? and how do most men feel about women paying for them?
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11 responses
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
Between me and my wife. It all defends. It's not a big deal for us.
@what_now (554)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
i am talking about dating, marriage is totally different as majority of people share money in marriage
• Bangladesh
29 Nov 06
always man.
@what_now (554)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
why always?
@missybal (4490)
• United States
2 Dec 06
When I was still dateing I would let him pay the first time and then back and forth as much as possible. I don't have a problem with paying my way too and it should be a two way street.
@Sorathian (4329)
• Pakistan
2 Dec 06
Obviously men should pay on their first date. Women would feel insulting i guess if their date usn't ready to pay for them.
@shahinshk (384)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Nov 06
IT DOES NOT MATTER WHO PAYS, NOT COMPULSORY THAT A MAN SHOULD PAY BUT IF HE PAYS HE LOOKS DECENT
• United States
2 Dec 06
It depends on who asked who out on the date. Yet, it never hurts for the other one to offer to pay his or her share. I have to say that my man was old fashione when we were dating. I always offered to pay and he would say that he was the man, he felt he should pay. I would smile and let him. It seemed important to him and he wasn't one of those men who thought I had to pay him in return with other things (you know what I mean)
@juicemilk (2283)
• Australia
30 Nov 06
I think whoever asks the other person out should pay, but the other person should at least offer to pay half. I don't mind if a guy doesn't pay, but it always nice to be treated :)
@shahinshk (384)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Nov 06
IT DOES NOT MATTER WHO PAYS, NOT COMPULSORY THAT A MAN SHOULD PAY BUT IF HE PAYS HE LOOKS DECENT
@shooie (4984)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I've gone out where I've paid and where he's paid and or we split it...it is no biggy to me...but am married now and don't worry about it...lol he pays
@yorb24 (2179)
• United States
30 Nov 06
I suppose whoever asked the person out on the date. I don't have a problem paying (as a woman) or vice versa.
• India
30 Nov 06
being a men i prefer to pay but some times lady also pay. in case of date, the fellow who offered should pay. but prefer to men