Staying "alone" ( alone and surrounded with kids)
By Mrs.Pumpkins
@MrsPumpkins (466)
Philippines
June 22, 2019 7:57am CST
As a solo parent of three boys, i've been hearing a lot from everyone (lately) "you're still young, you look okay, you should find someone special now, widen your horizon"...
They're so excited for me to enter in a new relationship... but me, i am happy with the freedom i have now, and being in a relationship is not my priority right now. My priorities are my kids and what they need.
Do we really have to be in a relationship to be "happy"?
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6 responses
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
22 Jun 19
If you are happy than stay single. God made each of us differently and unique. What works for you might not work for another and vice versa-that's perfectly okay! =)
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@cherriefic (10399)
• Philippines
22 Jun 19
I am also a single mother with two girls. I don't feel the need of having another relationship since I am busy taking care of them and making a living.
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@sallypup (61088)
• Centralia, Washington
22 Jun 19
Everyone is different and everyone's idea of happiness is different. Go with what pleases you.
@MrsPumpkins (466)
• Philippines
22 Jun 19
Yeah, we don't need someone to complete us... we are already complete 
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
18 Aug 19
@MrsPumpkins
You do not have to be in a relationship to be happy. If you are ok alone raising your boys then why get in a relationship. Some really like to be alone and do not need a man or woman around like others think they do.
@mrki444 (15149)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
22 Jun 19
@MrsPumpkins To bad. I hope next relationship will be better.
@MrsPumpkins (466)
• Philippines
22 Jun 19
Yeah, I've been into that for almost 13 years... just to be defined as a complete family... it was just a very toxic relationship 
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