Do you feel bad if someone tells you they don’t like you?

@JustBhem (70555)

Davao, Philippines

July 7, 2019 7:41am CST

Of course, I think we all are. This happens when my Team Leader told one of my team mates that she don’t like her to be in our team. We are all shocked when we all heard that from her. My team mate was in shocked too and ask our Team Leader why, she simply said ‘you are a mess, and that she don’t want her to mess our team. This team mate came from a broken team who’s stats are not good that’s why their team was dissolve, and she was put in our team. Our team that time was in the Top 5 for more sales. And our TL don’t want to lose that fame. My thoughts is, my TL should have told that team mate of ours in other place or in a nice way possible. She just humiliate her.

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• Philippines

7 Jul 19

She's mean. Her position doesn't give her the right to humiliate anyone. Anyway, I was already told that someone didn't like me. Worse is, she made it sure that I felt it and in my presence, she's very nice with everyone but me. At first, I was affected. I was downhearted and tried to win her affection, but I gave up, so I just did my job and tried so hard not to be affected by her. In the end, she still didn't like me but at least she became subtle and dealt with me professionally.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

Lucky for you. For some it would be a disaster working in a crowd having a hateful co worker. And beside we are not born to please them. You did great by doing your job and not minding them.

• Philippines

7 Jul 19

@JustBhem It's good that your TL likes you. What if it was you whom she doesn't like, what will you do?

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

@Bhadine I will tell her that I don’t care if she does not like me as long as I’m making stats. I need to prove to her that I’m doing my job well.

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@simone10 (54187)

• Louisville, Kentucky

7 Jul 19

Your team leader isn't acting very professional.

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@simone10 (54187)

• Louisville, Kentucky

9 Jul 19

@JustBhem i would be too. Does upper management know she said that and feels that way?

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

9 Jul 19

@simone10 As I know, nope, they don’t know. As an agent we don’t have a voice there.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

I agree, we were in a shocked mode when she said that.

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@psanasangma (7287)

• India

8 Jul 19

There is always other way round to tell, by correcting a person and proper talking, I doubt team leader seems to be very direct and talk whatever comes to mind

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

8 Jul 19

Which is she should be careful of the words she want to say.

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@LadyDuck (471468)

• Switzerland

7 Jul 19

I fully agree with Maluse, your team leader is not doing a good job, this is not a way to lead a team.

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@LadyDuck (471468)

• Switzerland

8 Jul 19

@JustBhem Did she disappear?

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

8 Jul 19

@LadyDuck I am not sure. It’s been a long time. I wonder if she excel as a Team Leader.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

I agree. I wonder where she is now.

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@porwest (91089)

• United States

7 Jul 19

I really could care less at the end of the day what people think of me. Some people will like me, some will not. Same goes for others. I will like some, and others not. It's just the way it is. As for the team leader, while I think the approach may have been wrong, I don't know anything about the team member she is referring to. She could be justified in her thoughts. Not everyone is a good worker just because they show up and accolades are not a given. They are earned.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

8 Jul 19

@porwest That’s a leader should be.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

I agree with you. A TL should motivate her team to do well.

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@porwest (91089)

• United States

8 Jul 19

@JustBhem No. That I agree with. ATL is supposed to nurture the team and guide the team, and when it comes to the weak links, their job is to make that weak link stronger.

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@sophie09 (34236)

• Indonesia

7 Jul 19

your team leader doesnt have a good leadership thingy

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

I agree.

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@sophie09 (34236)

• Indonesia

8 Jul 19

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@MGjhaud (23240)

• Philippines

7 Jul 19

She might need to reevaluate the scope of her job as a leader.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

She should. Or maybe she haven’t had any seminar for being a Team Leader.

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@popciclecold (38818)

• United States

7 Jul 19

If a person don't like me , they should keep it to themself.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

Or tell us in a nice way or only you two knows about it.

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

7 Jul 19

If somebody doesn't like me, do I really need to know that? Maybe they should just keep that go themselves.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

Or if in case they can’t hold it. Tell us where you and I both know.

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@Letranknight2015 (51969)

• Philippines

7 Jul 19

I'm sorry but with what she said it's not motivating and you may truly loose that top 5 if she doesn't help this new team mate of theirs.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

Yes, instead od humiliating her, she should encourage her instead that she belongs to a top team now.

@marlina (154131)

• Canada

7 Jul 19

Your team leader is a very rude person. I hope that she doesn't do it again.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

I am not sure about that for she is so arrogant.

@amadeo (111938)

• United States

7 Jul 19

Sorry but a bit confusing.What is a team leader and whaat is the job for him/ Something to look into or speak up

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

A team leader, the one who leads a team, example in a Call center.

@Miss_Leafy (4296)

• Colombia

7 Jul 19

Your team leader should not tell that rude words in front of other people .

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

7 Jul 19

I agree with you. If she is a Leader she must to that with respect.