Accepting my Gay Friend

@ginamel (511)
July 8, 2019 5:01am CST
Once I had a friend and from the first look he looks a straight guy. Handsome, Tall, smart, an ideal guy. However, one day He came to me and confess His true identity. I was literally shocked and I do not know what to say. He said to me that it was difficult because His parents does not want Him to be gay. As for me, He is my friend so I have to accept Him. Even he is not a straight guy He is still a good and reliable person. Being different should not define our friendship
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
9 Jul 19
That's good. Jesus is no respecter of person. He loves everyone. He hates the sins, but love the sinners.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
9 Jul 19
@ginamel yes, you're. The Bible is clear not judge other people for we're not perfect. It's good you accept him as your friend in which he feels comfortable.
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@ginamel (511)
9 Jul 19
@Nakitakona It doesn't matter who he is though because we have years of friendship. Maybe 'Just like feelings, people change' really is true.
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@ginamel (511)
9 Jul 19
@Bulaklak I always think why the church would say that it is against God. Although it is reallywritten on the bible that man is for woman and woman is for man only. However, it is not right to judge them though. The world now is changing. I guess we should adapt to these changes and live with it
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@raveeen (3457)
8 Jul 19
I do really love having gay friends haha it's really fun to have a bonding with them
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@raveeen (3457)
8 Jul 19
@ginamel Ya, because of my gay friends when I'm with them I really feel a very positive surroundings. No sadness, no negativity, Just laughter
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
@raveeen yes. So much fun and they always find ways to be jolly. Even us wont know whether they are up to any problems or not .
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
Yes. All those jokes is just so priceless
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
8 Jul 19
Don't we all get shocked when a handsome friend would later reveal himself as gay? I have many gay friends and I love them. They live up to what they are - gay or happy people. I love mjngling and being with them. No dull moments .
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
9 Jul 19
@ginamel Yeah, it's a shock indeed at firat. So nowadays , when we see a good lookin man we wonder if he might be gay.
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
Yeah. It is always a surprise when they confess. However, they mame things feel lighter when they give their jokes and let the group laugh on every joke they utter.
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@ginamel (511)
9 Jul 19
@SIMPLYD Yes. I once ask one handsome guy if he is straight. I am just so curious that is why i asked and i did not want to offend him though lol
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
10 Jul 19
I really don;t care about their personal things, as long as it doesn't trouble me
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@amandajay (23264)
• New Zealand
10 Jul 19
@ginamel oh yes they are the most harmless fellas you can ever get
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@ginamel (511)
10 Jul 19
@Amanda Yes of course. And sometimes they are the most genuine person you could ever meet in your life.
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@ginamel (511)
10 Jul 19
@amandajay although there are some that actually is not good influence for you. However, they never fail to be funny at all times
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
8 Jul 19
Trust comes from the heart not anybody's body or not it's body Desire.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
8 Jul 19
@ginamel yes it's necessary
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
Yes exactly. So these people should be welcomed with open arms in the society.
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
@Starkinds some people just do not understand
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
8 Jul 19
whoever they are, friend is a friend. we have to accept them
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
Agreed. If their family could not accept them then who else will right.
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
8 Jul 19
@ginamel this. you've got a point
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
@sophie09 I guess i am just too emotional when it comes to my friends. I was so sad because he could not be accepted by his family
@pumpkinjam (8769)
• United Kingdom
8 Jul 19
The gender of the people he finds attractive does not change the person he is. It is, like the colour of his eyes or the job he does, a part of his identity. If he is a good person then being gay will not change that.
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
Yeah. As long as he is not harming anyone or committing criminal acts. He should be love because he is a human being after all.
@toniganzon (72533)
• Philippines
8 Jul 19
I have a very good instinct when it comes to someone's gender. I can tell when someone is gay or not. I have so many gay friends from the time I was in grade school and until my adult years. I enjoy their company and I love them. What's not to accept?
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
Oh yeah I agree. They are the most jolly people someone can ever have. If we are with them we always laugh at random things.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
8 Jul 19
The parents could not stop him being gay.How silly.We are born gay.
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
@Alfredo Yes indeed. No matter how resistance they do. He is who he is. There is nothing they can do but to accept.
@Sojourn (13837)
• India
8 Jul 19
I haven't met any gay person in real life. I agree that no one's sexuality can define the friendship.
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
8 Jul 19
@ginamel In my country it is still taboo, and people fear to talk about this openly.
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
@Sojoutn you haven't met one? Really? That's surprising
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@ginamel (511)
8 Jul 19
@Sojourn ooh sorry about that.
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@debjani1 (7202)
10 Jul 19
If the person has all the qualities of a good friend, we should accept them.
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@ginamel (511)
10 Jul 19
@DEBJANI yeah regardless of what she or he looks or what she or he believes in life.
• United States
8 Jul 19
He is still a human being we all have choices to make in life. Even though we may not agree with the choices of others we can still show love and compassion no matter what.
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@ginamel (511)
9 Jul 19
@Christina yes indeed. The change happens and we need to adapt to ot