A friend in need
By Leah
@JeahNika (383)
Philippines
8 responses
@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
16 Jul 19
When you realize they just keep cribing ans crying
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
16 Jul 19
@JeahNika then it is definitely the time to move on
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@cperry2 (5608)
• Newport, Oregon
16 Jul 19
I'm not sure what you are looking for here. For me, someone's venting becomes too much when it begins interfering in my own world. I love to be there for friends and people in general, but when it becomes an every day occurrence -- them venting to me and they are not doing anything to change their situation, I will have to look closely. I may have to decide what's more important. My sanity or listening to their issues.
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@cperry2 (5608)
• Newport, Oregon
17 Jul 19
@JeahNika I've had to do more permanent distancing in the past. But for those whose friendship I value I will up the stakes a bit. I will mention my view point. "If this is bothering you, why do you not take steps to change it?" If they throw excuses back at me I might even challenge those.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
16 Jul 19
when you're going through your own troubles.
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@Nakitakona (56484)
• Philippines
17 Jul 19
No man is an island. He needs a companion.
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