I dare you to drop the most painful words someone has told you.

@sol_cee (38219)
Philippines
July 23, 2019 10:14pm CST
I always have respect for people who get back on their feet after every setback they face in life. This friend got pregnant before she could get her college diploma to the utter disappointment of her uncle who supported her financially, married the guy because of true love despite her family’s protest, got a second baby, juggled the life of a working mom because husband was a lazy SOB, got cheated on because again he’s a SOB, became a single mom, went back to school, passed her nursing license exam and now she’s working in the UK. Reminiscing over FaceTime, she said people looked down on her because of her bad choices in life. That she wouldn’t amount to anything. They tried to bury her with cruel words, they didn’t know she was a seed.
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 19
"i want you to find someone better than me, and be happy"
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
Ouch. That sucks. But wait.. How old are you?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
@sophie09 you’re still a child!! lol
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 19
@sol_cee yeah that was so sad. im 20
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Jul 19
She don’t mind those words anymore since she already surpassed those troubled days.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
She’s a fighter Bhem. Like you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Jul 19
@sol_cee Wow. I can tell based on your storm.
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• United States
24 Jul 19
like a phoenix, one must rise. yer friend proved though that she could rise 'bove 't all. that hubs 'twas prolly abusive 's well, so her'n those young'uns 've most likely been to hades'n back. i've known many who've been kicked down 'n chose to climb'p 'n make a great life fer 'emselves despite the odds. then, sadly, there'd be others who've not that inner strength'n jest wallow'n the hand they feel life dealt 'em. a big kudo's to yer friend!
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
24 Jul 19
She turned out just fine despite what other people said. Karma!
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
These people made that destruction into inspiration and show the world that life is fair.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
yeah.. I hope she never runs out of motivation..
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@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
She will not, she's a fighter.
@Janet357 (75646)
24 Jul 19
but at least she did her best to be a nurse.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
She did. Juggling the life of a working mom/student.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
24 Jul 19
what a lovely way of putting that. My oldest daughter and youngest son have dropped so many painful words on me I wouldn't know where to begin. Family can cut us the deepest with words. My mom also did it to me many times.
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
25 Jul 19
@sol_cee thank you
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
25 Jul 19
I’m sorry to hear that Bonnie. I can’t imagine doing that to my mother. But they must have regretted saying those painful words to you.
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@Deepizzaguy (102513)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
24 Jul 19
The rule of life when you get knocked down is to get back on your feet and keep moving forward.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
True. Although not everyone can do so..
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
24 Jul 19
People said the same about me and I proved them wrong as well.
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• Banks, Oregon
24 Jul 19
Most painful words ever said to me by my own sister "I hope you die of AIDs you fagggot piece of shhhhit"
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
That’s terrible Chris. Is that the same sister you wrote in your discussion?
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
@chrissbergstrom she must have regretted saying those things to you..
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• Banks, Oregon
24 Jul 19
@sol_cee yes and that was words she said before did addiction back when she was just a bad drunk
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@tom_view (6451)
• Kolkata, India
24 Jul 19
sad story.i think you should not care about others' opinion
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
25 Jul 19
Easier said than done but yeah we shouldn’t.
24 Jul 19
I don't see anything remotely bad about it. There are people worse off than her I'm sure; like sc-umbags walking freely on the surface of the earth and they weren't even judged. Like, so what? Everyone has baggage of their own.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
True. She proved them all wrong.
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24 Jul 19
@sol_cee If we listen to others hearsay too much, we won't be happy.
@debjani1 (7202)
24 Jul 19
The world is filled with cruel people mostly. Wish her coming days will be in her favours.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
Thank you Debjani. And back at you.
24 Jul 19
Me : will your life be better without me? Her : yes
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
That sucks. I feel for you.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
@TheGreater I hope you have moved on.
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Jul 19
I think she has learned enough from her own life. Wishing her a good life.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
24 Jul 19
@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
24 Jul 19
She had the courage to carry on living.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
Guess her two babies gave her the strength to continue fighting the game of life..
@velvet53 (22534)
• Palisade, Colorado
24 Jul 19
Cruel people are everywhere. She is trying to make a life for her and her children. Hat's off to her for not giving up. If I was her I would tell those people that she does not need them in her life because they are so negative.
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@jobelbojel (35461)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
Everyday is learning we have to go through. Her was a storm and now a rainbow.
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• Langley, British Columbia
24 Jul 19
The world is full of people who judge without knowing, maybe it was her destiny and now she will come out again to fulfill her dreams.
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
24 Jul 19
The UK job was meant for her. She is meant is to succeed.
@sulu_82 (10)
• India
24 Jul 19
It is a inspiring story. More Power to Your friend! :)
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@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
25 Jul 19
Thank you. She inspires me indeed.
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