I wish I had never listened to this song this morning.

@allknowing (136445)
India
July 30, 2019 12:33am CST
I connected myself to youtube and picked a song. That song took me to the time we were just married and were going through the process of adjustment. Memories came flooding back and those memories were not so pleasant. I thought I could go through with it but it did affect me badly. Have you ever had that feeling?
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
30 Jul 19
Oh! I have songs that evoke memories. I am glad that most of these memories are pleasant and I want to visit it. Except for one song that was my nephew's favorite. We lost him in a car accident when he was 11. He loved to dance on it. So whenever that song falls on my ears, I can feel choking in throat.
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@allknowing (136445)
• India
30 Jul 19
I too have countless that bring back great memories.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
30 Jul 19
@allknowing I love to listen to them. It's an escape for me at times when I am feeling low.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
30 Jul 19
Oh it looked like there were unresolved hurts that you can still remember it very well back then. So far I have no recollection like that although my marriage has had its rocky periods in time but when I recall those times the hurts it had does not affect me now in the present. I might fee a bit sad or angry at times but I know in my heart it was resolved sometime in the past and hurts and angry feelings has already been resolved.
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@allknowing (136445)
• India
30 Jul 19
I understand that but that momentous adjustment did put us in a spot - both of us.
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• United States
30 Jul 19
Yes I have I have to be careful what I listen to.
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@allknowing (136445)
• India
30 Jul 19
In every one's life there are moments that one prefers to forget.
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• United States
30 Jul 19
@allknowing Yes we all have those
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@josie_ (10034)
• Philippines
30 Jul 19
If the song bring back bad memories then why listen to it? It seems you still have not found closure with the past relationship.
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@allknowing (136445)
• India
30 Jul 19
It is not like that but it reminds me of that short era.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
30 Jul 19
Whenever music get related your memory it's painful or some time giving you a new smile.
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@Miss_Leafy (4296)
• Colombia
30 Jul 19
I understand what you felt. I also has a song which always makes me almost cry when I listen to it.
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@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 19
That's what I am trying to avoid. I hate unpleasant past.
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@jstory07 (139717)
• Roseburg, Oregon
30 Jul 19
I do not have any songs that bring back memories.
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@rakski (123037)
• Philippines
30 Jul 19
Just some sad memories when I listened to some songs
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
30 Jul 19
Before, and now I like to listen to that one heart breaking song.
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
30 Jul 19
Oh! I have songs that evoke memories. I am glad that most of these memories are pleasant and I want to visit it. Except for one song that was my nephew's favorite. We lost him in a car accident when he was 11. He loved to dance on it. So whenever that song falls on my ears, I can feel choking in throat.
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@sophie09 (34236)
• Indonesia
30 Jul 19
i have felt that way
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