divorce

I think that divorce is the most sensible and logical solution to a bad marriage..

i wont

I am not in favor of divorce. Marriage is hard work. It involves compromise. Moreso, getting into this type of relationship is engaging in a lifelong journey together. If you're not up to it, don't get married in the first place. If you're living in a liberal society, stay living together and steer clear of marriage if you're not into lifelong commitment.