Skinny-looking Man
By Yanzalong
@yanzalong (18987)
Indonesia
July 31, 2019 8:58am CST
My better half keeps complaining about me becoming skinny as if I hadn't eaten for years.She said I looked ugly if I was thin. Because of that I need to eat a lot at least 2x a day. Secondly she added that my being so skinny was also due to my worrying a lot. So in addition to eating more, I should also get the worry off my mind.
By the way do you prefer being fat to being skinny?
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13 responses
@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
31 Jul 19
I hope you will be happy with yourself.
I prefer thin.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
31 Jul 19
I like being skinny. I’ve always been thin. It’s jsut in my natural nature. You can’t help what body type you really are most of it is genetics. Genetically I’m thin and short. If I get a little too much wait on my hips it starts to hurt. Being thin doesn’t always have to do with how much you eat or if you worry a lot or not. Genetics is the big one
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
31 Jul 19
@yanzalong your welcome! It’s just part of basic biology.!
@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
31 Jul 19
@yanzalong
She does not sound very nice what she is saying to you. I have been fat off and on all my life and recently maybe the last 3 years I lost weight and look good and I thought I do not ever want to be fat again.
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 19
I would think it was different as you were from being fat to getting slim. My case was I was on ideal weight to being under weight.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
1 Aug 19
@yanzalong
At one point I lost a lot of weight that I joined weight loss and I could have been a model but was coming to live in Israel. After 6 months of going past bakeries here I went in and gained weight and was very hard to lose again. i learned that diets were not for me. I found Overeaters Anonymous and something someone said one day helped me. I still did not lose much. It took me many years and of buying fat size clothes that I had to do something. So, I gave up things and summer led to winter and I still did not eat much and that was something for me. I always would eat in winter and I take medication that I can only eat two meals and then no food. So, I finally lost and I exercise and try and do some walking. Some days more than others and I would like to lose some more.
@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
2 Aug 19
I am a skinny guy too.
I maintained 3 meals per day and sometimes is late meal so totally is 4 meals yet I cannot get fat.
Perhaps, you need to go to gym to have some exercise so that you look fit in shape. I think that is what your girlfriend (sorry if I wrongly recognized it) what to see.
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@Acefun (1220)
• Malaysia
3 Aug 19
@yanzalong
Hi there,
Nothing to worry about. I think your girlfriend is giving you the chance to make improvement on yourself. It is a positive thing.
It might be a good if you can ask her to join the gym with you in order to build up your relationship.
Good luck and hope to heard positive news from you.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
31 Jul 19
I prefer to be relatively skinny. I would like to lose some weight.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
Eating two times a day won't be enough for you to become flesher.
You should eat 3 times a day , breakfast , lunch and dinner.
If you are eating rice maybe you should add some more rice.
And yes, stop worrying. Also it would be also nice if you do mild workout.
@PatZAnthony (14749)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
1 Aug 19
Everyone is just who they are and criticizing someone for being thin, short, tall or big just seems unfair.
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@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 19
My wife called a spade a spade so that I would try to change it.
