Lust vs Love
@Ladanger (14578)
United States
July 31, 2019 9:34pm CST
I like a person who loves himself enough to look decent and dress up. Also do his hair nice but besides that personality is what matter's the most. I never cared how handsome a man is if his personality is trash. It cost $0 to be a decent human. Anyone one can call you handsome/beautiful at your best but how many can call you that even when your dressed down?
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@RasmaSandra (79915)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Aug 19
That is what I loved the best about my relationship with my late husband we always love one another no matter how we were dressed or how we looked day in and day out. He was my soul mate and I sure miss him.
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@RasmaSandra (79915)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Aug 19
@Ladanger it was and this August it will be two years since he has been gone.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
1 Aug 19
@RasmaSandra wow i am sorry. How long were you guys married?
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@cyclopz (251)
• Sydney, Australia
19 Aug 19
Not really sure about this. There might be a think line between the two.
I mean i could love someone but at the same time feel the need to be intimate with the person.
Mostly i get attracted on the personality among others. Personality attracts my attention and the feelings i have towards the person will not change even if the person dresses down.
It that feeling of being happy together and wanting to see that person you love happy.
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
19 Aug 19
I just like the person to love himself also. Some drese down all the time because they don't care about their image. I have noticed that.
@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 Aug 19
What does that have to do with love and lust. How a person dress depicts there personality how they feel it has nothing to do with how good of a person they are. I don’t care for good looking guys not that I don’t mind looking at him. But my husband isn’t attractive. Yes I love him it’s his personality I’m that kind of person I’m always drawn to the way you act towards me and others around me. He’s a nerd loves music, instruments, playing video games but what attracted me to him was his kid heartiness he Leah’s treated me nicely as a friend and it helped that we each liked each other. I don’t care he doesn’t wear nice shirts but man he looks hot in scrubs.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
1 Aug 19
@Ladanger loving yourself has nothing to finery getting a hair cut. Loving yourself is treating yourself the way you want to. Some guys like long hair having short and cut like a business man might not be there things. That doesn’t mean they don’t love themselves.
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
1 Aug 19
That's why i am saying that as long as he is decent. Some men don't even love themselves and even bother getting a haircut but i always go for personality the most.
@Tampa_girl7 (50270)
• United States
2 Aug 19
Someone's personality and how you feel when you'rer with them matter the most.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
2 Aug 19
Yes because even when they age you are still in love with who they are.
@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
1 Aug 19
I know my husband would always appreciate me.
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@yanzalong (18988)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 19
Love is more long-lasting and even for ever.
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@chrissbergstrom (10767)
• Banks, Oregon
1 Aug 19
I don't care how someone dresses or looks anymore it's what's inside and how they treat me
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@emmapadrino (195)
• Calabozo, Venezuela
1 Aug 19
no doubt love is above all else
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