Choices made.... In friendship....

@Aansh13 (11362)
New Delhi, India
August 2, 2019 11:12pm CST
I have always been surrounded by people around... I always had great number of friends, but lately I realised that most of them love flattering, they aren't people who are true and maintain their fake image. Being social is one thing and being friends is something different. Realising this slowly I stoped hanging out with people that tell you what I want to hear, probably all cheesy and fancy things and I started hanging out with people who tell me the truth, who help me to be a better person and evolve. Good and cheesy things may give us temporary happiness but in long run they aren't of any good. Have you ever made such choices in friendship...???
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
3 Aug 19
talking about choice it means Good choice to up a friend. it's a bonding and the bonding show their magic after such a long time so we can't decide that someone is very good in a short period or someone is very bad in that short period, so whenever beautiful things to take time to develop. I think friendship is one of them.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Very well said... Anything strong and wonderful takes time to develop. Agreeing to every word of yours
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
3 Aug 19
@Aansh13 thank you my dear
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
3 Aug 19
@Yuvi_04 thank you very much
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3 Aug 19
i have different kinds of friends, but it doesn't matter to me if they are true to me or not, all i care is that i am true to them i am natural to them and when there's a need to help them, i extend it according to my capability to help, i'm just careful that i will not be influenced by their weaknesses . =)
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
This is a great approach... WOW! Loved the way you have put this
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
26 Aug 19
That's perfect. You're a wise kind of a friend. You treat everyone as if they've a good chance to be good if they're not. You're showing them a good example of what a friend should be. Keep it up. That's good.
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
Nowadays being with my girlfriend is enough, but there are times that I hang out with my friends but there's a barrier in the middle since I don't trust them
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Trust is the most vital thing in friendship....
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
26 Aug 19
That's the big question we have with those people. We call them friends but we don't trust them. That simply means that they're not our friends. They're our enemies for friends could be relied upon. They could keep a secret.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
4 Aug 19
@Aansh13 It is hard to learn that these people you hung out with were not true friends. That is very hard. I have met many people in my life and many are not real friends.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
4 Aug 19
@Aansh13 That is so true. We learn about people in time. Eventually, if they are not real people or real friends they show their true colors and then you want to get away from them.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Aug 19
@Hannihar Yeah! That's how life works
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
4 Aug 19
We can't make guesses, I think we all learn about such people only with the passage of time.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
These days I'm just looking for friends to hangout with and have fun.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
That's a very clean agenda... I like it
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
@Aansh13 Thanks.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
Well my simple rule is when I am in Rome, I act like the Romans do. My true friends are my children and my wife.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Great Well I like your concept
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
@Aansh13 That's the practical way my friend for you couldn't influence them but to adjust with not to the point that you're controlled.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
3 Aug 19
@Yuvi_04 okay. Thanks
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@psanasangma (7289)
• India
3 Aug 19
I am very choosy in making friends !
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Earlier I wasn't... But now I am
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@jstory07 (139397)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Aug 19
I just want true friends that enjoy life and having a good time.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Great that is
@LeaPea2417 (37350)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Aug 19
I feel the same way you do about friends.
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@AliCanary (3224)
3 Aug 19
It's definitely better to have a few really good friends than to have a lot of fake friends. You are making wise choices.
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Thank you... I had to make choices..
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@skydream (1445)
• Agate, Colorado
5 Aug 19
I have for other reasons but i def keep friends who can tell me what I need to hear but also in a gentle way so its not harsh or hard to hear
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
5 Aug 19
Well... Yeah! That's true...
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
4 Aug 19
It is good to be social but is not easy to make friends.
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@Rohithee (374)
• India
3 Aug 19
Time decides us from different year with different people and different memories
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@Aansh13 (11362)
• New Delhi, India
3 Aug 19
Hmmm... Yeah! Actually
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@Rohithee (374)
• India
3 Aug 19
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