Who should pay for the first date?
By Ken Kennedy
@lin0775 (124)
August 22, 2019 4:35am CST
When I was a younger, my parents always told me that the guy should be a gentleman. As a result, the guy should always pay on the first time, so that’s what I grew up with. Now, a lot of people think that the times are changing. My friend Fay is a seller, she told me that she could earn much more money than other men, she did not care about who pay for the bill on the first date. If she asked him out and she would pay. Some guys around me think that they should pay the bill because it’s a tradition.
A part of people think that women have equal social status with men in modern society, there are so many women that make more money that they are, why not split the bill.
So, what do you think, my dear friends, what did you deal with the bill on your first date?
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12 responses
@Starkinds (32712)
• India
22 Aug 19
Of course if I am capable to pay the bill definitely I will go to pay the bill
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@profree2019 (1218)
• Barquisimeto, Venezuela
22 Aug 19
By custom, I always pay on the first date, but I'm sure that is changing, and I think that the ideal would be to share the bill.
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@lin0775 (124)
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22 Aug 19
I think the guy should pay the bill on the fist day, and then just see what happens on the second or third date.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
22 Aug 19
For me, whoever asks for the date should pay for the bill. Doesn't matter what the gender is.
@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
22 Aug 19
I dealt with embarrassment on the first date as I wearing pjs and I didn't want to worry about appearance but be present on time to her first date...welp I had to pay bills because she left without a drink or food offered seeing my dressing 
@Loverabbit (3401)
• Karachi, Pakistan
23 Aug 19
@lin0775 lol trust me it was a lot to learn that day 
@lin0775 (124)
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23 Aug 19
@Loverabbit I can't imagine what's the mood of the girl when she saw your dressing.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
22 Aug 19
Naturally it's the man. If the girl will pay, why question it? If both of them will pay why oppose it?
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
23 Aug 19
whoever asks the person out.after that,take turns.that's fair.
@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
23 Aug 19
Who asked who out? usually the men, pay , but something you can work out maybe offer to pay half, if you want.
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
22 Aug 19
The guy should pay. He is trying to win the girl and impress her. May sound archaic but i think it is nased on some natural laws
@sa1978zack (14)
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22 Aug 19
I am a man and I would pay, Cos sometimes you have to be a gentleman. But I have been on dates and the lady said it's ok I will pay for mine. So just said, well I will pay for the meals and you pay for drinks then. Then both get to pay
