I don't Know What to Think

By mor
Kiryat Ata, Israel
August 31, 2019 4:51pm CST
I posted 5 hours ago on facebook, I wrote my hopes for the next year. Now I see, a friend of mine wrote almost the same words, copied whole sentences and added a couple of emogies and some words of her own... So, she posted it like it came from her mind. But I know for sure it is my writings. So, on one side, my positive message is being spread better, but, on the other side... I feel like I got robbed...I don't know what to think.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
1 Sep 19
Your friend should have shared YOUR message and not copy it.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
1 Sep 19
My friend has sent me a message saying that she didn't mean to copy. She meant to share, and that the media is free. She wrote that she and her son like me. I decided to leave it behind.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
5 Sep 20
@LadyDuck Now, a year later, she posted the same post from last year and I got mad on her. I replied in her post with a photo of my original post from last year, and wrote that she had coppied mine. and now she recycle her coppied post. She deleted me from her friends list and she didn't admit and didn't deny it.
@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
1 Sep 19
@stringer321 That is fine, I think she did not want to hurt you.
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• United States
4 Sep 19
can be a bit flatterin' when someone echo's yer thoughts, but ya should'a been given the credit due fer such. i've read through the other responses/yer comments to such 'n see that'cha talked with her'n she 'pologized. my hope bein' that she deleted her post 'n shared yers 'nstead. fer myself 'n many others, stealin' ones written words 'tis quite the violation 'f personal property. i feel the same 'bout the photos i share here 's some've stolen 'em, claimin' rights to such. usin' software to remove my watermark. 't jest aint a moral thingy to do. so sad this happened to ya, y'ave a mighty big heart to let 't go.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
4 Sep 19
@crazyhorseladycx I guess we all have to be ready for such things to happen so if we share something, it better be something we don't think as our own, and we are willing to give it away totally, ah?
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
4 Sep 19
@crazyhorseladycx so maybe the object from the picture needs to have a clue only you know where to look at, to prove it is yours.
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• United States
4 Sep 19
@stringer321 i reckon so, though we've 'lways faith that others 'd 've a bit more respect? 's fer my pics, i don't mind if'n folks ask'n i give permission fer such to be used. otherwise, i get a tad cranky. need to change my watermark where such goes 'cross the whole pics i reckon? though i'm quite certain that some'd know a 'fix' 'round that, too.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
3 Sep 19
That is what we call plagiarism and I might call her up on it!! Make a comment telling her how much you enjoy the way she used your words.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
3 Sep 19
@BelleStarr it's all right, I talked with her. She didn't mean to copy, she thought it was ok.
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@moffittjc (121604)
• Gainesville, Florida
8 Sep 19
Plagiarism is the sincerest form of flattery, as they often say. But still, I think your friend would have been better served to have just shared your post and then maybe added a few of her own words, such as "I agree," "this is great material," or "this is something we should all strive for." It could have been done tastefully without blatantly copying your material.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
9 Sep 19
As long as it is not a personal post, I didn't invent something new, I posted a message of free love and hopes for the new year, it's ok. Everyone can copy, I don't care too much now.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
5 Sep 20
@stringer321 a year has passed and she sent that post again. I didn't like that and it gave me hard times. I asked her to stop coppying me. She deleted me from her friends list. now I cannot see her posts.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Sep 19
I just read what you told Anna. If that’s the case, then let it go. She really should have shared it.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
4 Sep 19
@DianneN yeah, it was a message for free love, love that is unconditional.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
4 Sep 19
@stringer321 Unconditional love sounds awesome. I wish there was more of it in our world.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
5 Sep 19
You couldn't control it since FB is a public. Just be glad that somebody likes your post in FB.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
5 Sep 19
@Nakitakona I know right. This is a jungle out there. Even here, someone can make a post similar to someone else's but with small changes. I now know that I want to post things I know I will be happy others will copy.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
6 Sep 19
@Nakitakona I know, this case was easy, it was a Facebook and real life friend. So, that is why I think about what to share and what not.
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
6 Sep 19
@stringer321 It's too complicated if you go after those plagiarists.
@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Sep 19
It's a shame people can't think for themselves and need to take from other people.
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
1 Sep 19
@just4him it is funny though, I can control them this way (in a good way) and make them think like me. So I post good things.
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@just4him (317089)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Sep 19
@stringer321 It's good you post good things.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
2 Sep 19
@just4him I want to thank you for your daily bible study, I hope we will all learn from those posts.
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
1 Sep 19
That's a shame if your friend is using your work. You need to speak to her about it.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
1 Sep 19
Ummm...I decided to let it go, my post was about helping each other, I will talk to her in about 12 hours. I will check with her what was the copying all about. I know her, she is nice, she is an art teacher and maybe she didn't know how to share or to credit me for the words and inspiration.