Your wife demand a lot, calamity or grace?
By Nasya Aulia
@kasmakarim (1932)
Indonesia
September 2, 2019 8:37pm CST
This morning my friend had a chance to tell about her private life that I thought could be an inspiration or a lesson for us all.
My friend is a man who is cheated by his wife because he cannot give what his wife wants. Though they live well off. Have their own house and vehicle. But his wife demanded more. Because he could not grant what his wife wanted, they then divorced and his wife married again with a richer man.
He, of course, felt broken and fell. Abandoned by his wife with betrayal left a deep wound in his heart. But he did not want to linger fall. He had no choice but to rise from adversity. The betrayal of his wife is made a whip for him to be successful.
Seven years have passed, the wheel of life is spinning. He became successful and became the CEO of the company where he was an employee before. While his wife went bankrupt and begged to return to him. Really like the stories in the drama.
He told me, the success he is getting now, there is a share in the demands of his ex-wife. If in the past his wife didn't demand much, maybe he wouldn't be in the best position now.
But for now he is still thinking whether to accept his wife back or not. Because he asked me, of course I answered no.
I told him, it is true that your wife indirectly made you successful. But leaving a husband for money is so disgusting. A wife should give support and motivation to her husband. Not just forcing all his wishes granted.
What do you think, guys?
Do you agree with me?
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11 responses
@Starkinds (32712)
• India
3 Sep 19
Your friend's wife has done a lot wrong with him, who left your friend for money. Now when she wants to come to your friend, your friend should not accept her but instead give her some money and say that he is giving the first and last time. Stand on your feet and do some small work
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 19
You got that point. I mean, sure he could not leave her homeless. He wouldn't be that cruel, I guess. Just leave her with some money to her make a new life.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
3 Sep 19
@kasmakarim he should help her just once not again or again just once
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Sep 19
It sounds like his wife is what is Americans call gold digger. Being with someone because of money not love. When they don’t get what they want with money they leave for someone else that has more money. She clearly doesn’t love him because if she loved him she wouldn’t ask for much or want for much other then his love and some time.
I think it’s best he just walk away and not even bother with her.
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@ShyBear88 (59347)
• Sterling, Virginia
3 Sep 19
@kasmakarim it’s better to be with someone that wants to be with you because they want to be with you.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 19
I totally agree. I think anyone will definitely refuse to have a relationship with someone who has a "gold digger" behavior like his ex-wife (of course if they know their true skin)
@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 19
Thank you, I'm glad we have a same opinion
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
3 Sep 19
She is a gold digger. I'm sure they could find support or solutions for their lack of money. They could do things together, think together how to save money, and still be happy. Gold diggers are not the wives to be with. If she cheated on him and hurt him, for having not enough money, she deserves no second chance.
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
4 Sep 19
@kasmakarim she will be sorry for a long time I hope. She now taste a little bit of what she lost. A lot of money and a good man.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 19
Yes, luckily my friend decided not to take her back. He only gave her some money to start a new life, like my suggestion
@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
4 Sep 19
@stringer321 Totally, I'm glad she finally got her karma
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@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
3 Sep 19
If your friend is reading this post and let him no that my answer is a huge huge big NOOOOOO.
She doesn't love him, Let her ROT if he wants to remain successful and quiet life.
She dumped him because He's poor, Don't Pain for those who left you, Use Pain to Earn Success that Defines you. Instagram pe bhi apna pyaar aur support dena ...
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
3 Sep 19
Yes, I have the same opinion. It's clear his ex-wife loves him only because of his money, not from her heart.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 19
Yup, I'm really sure that's the reason why she's coming back
@ilocosboy (45156)
• Philippines
6 Sep 19
I agree with you. Your friend did the right thing.
Yeah, just like a drama in television show.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
Thank you, ya, I'm sure he did a right thing.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
21 Nov 19
Lol, I'm totally agree about her is just a shallow person
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@porwest (92463)
• United States
21 Nov 19
@kasmakarim I mean. I LOVE my wife. She will not make us rich. But I would not trade her for money EVEN IF I am very money driven. If I had a lot of money I would rather spend it and share it with her.
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