Sorry, 60 is not old!
By snowy
@snowy22315 (180699)
United States
September 3, 2019 8:54am CST
So, anyway, I am certain it is because I am this age, that I found this offensive, but the book I was reading last night kept discussing a 60 year old woman as being an old lady! Ok, granted 60 isn't young, and some people can be old at 60, but there is no way I consider myself to be old. Middle aged yes, late middle aged yes, but not old. The author was really on my nerves as she must have described the woman about 5x this way. I am considering writing her a message. Even legally, old age doesn't traditionally begin until 65, so what is this author's problem? People are living longer and longer anyway, and old age in rel terms probably doesn't begin these days until age 75. Would you be perturbed about this as well?
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
I know, and although some people might be old at that age, the vast majority of us are not!
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@just4him (317041)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Sep 19
@snowy22315 True. I like to think of myself as just hitting middle age.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@just4him I just think of myself as middle aged period. I don't think I will consider myself old, until I am in my 70's.
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@Ghosthere2 (891)
• United States
3 Sep 19
I believe it's just another number. This morning I felt very old, like 110. I got laughing and moving and back on track and now I feel like I am 5. I guess I see age as a sliding scale!
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@divalounger (6117)
• United States
3 Sep 19
60 is the new 40--or something like that--I know 60-year-olds who feel old and I know 90-year-olds that feel young--The author must be trying to get to something--but I am not sure what
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
She was trying to say, she had nothing better to do, then spy on her neighbors. However, most 60 year olds I know are enjoying life or working, not spying on their neighbors cuz they have nothing better to do!
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@divalounger (6117)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@snowy22315 Yup--too busy trying to make ends meet!
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@TheHorse (218828)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Sep 19
@snowy22315 Is the author 60? She needs to get a life.
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@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
3 Sep 19
Don't let it bother you. How you feel physically is more important than a number anyway. =)
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Somebody who is literate enough to have written several books should know better.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
4 Sep 19
@TheHorse don't know it was just one of those Kindle books and a free lone at that.
@TheHorse (218828)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Sep 19
@snowy22315 How big are the publishers (said Horse the snob)?
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Is this a fictional book?
Is this a modern (written within the past decade) book?
If so, then yeah that's pretty offensive, especially as they seemed to make the character's age such a big deal. I mean, the way you made it seem, it sounds as if that's part of the character's description. "Eloise, brown hair, short, aged 60" I mean, you don't put a person's age in a description of who they are normally.
Anyway... It wouldn't hurt to write the author.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@ScribbledAdNauseum She isn't she is just someone who wrote a Kindle book, and based on her writing, she is unlikely to ever be a "big name."
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
I would like to give her a reality check.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@snowy22315 True, but you have to consider that she may not ever see your comments. If she's a big enough author, she may have a publicity team that reads those types of things.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
I listen to loud rock music..I don't think an "old person" would do that.
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@Janet357 (75646)
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4 Sep 19
@snowy22315 yes. age does not affect at all our.daily routines and wants.
@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
4 Sep 19
I know right? Who does this woman think she is?
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@TiarasOceanView (70022)
• United States
4 Sep 19
@snowy22315 Someone great I guess lol
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@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Some people feel old at 50, I wouldn't worry about it. I know some 60 who are active, and some who are content not being active, sitting home, on the porch, watching the neighbors, knowing everything that goes on in the neighborhood. I have one of those neighbors, who is just 60 and watches everyone and tells, what she sees.
I try and hurry in when she is out there, as I don't need to hear what everyone has been doing all day. In that case the person is existing and not fully living.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Most people are quite active at age 60, at least the ones I know.
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@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@snowy22315 Not the ones I know, very few in fact are active, the one active one I know has some series health issues holding her down right now. Or she would be traveling.
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@Namelesss (3365)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Perhaps that particular 60 yr old was old. I don't know, people age differently with genetics and life style so I wouldn't be offended but, well idk, depends on the context I suppose.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
3 Sep 19
The other day I heard on the new that's an elderly lady here got hit by a car. When they later released her age, she was 54. I do not consider 54 elderly, nor do I think 60 is old.
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@TheHorse (218828)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Sep 19
@Happy2BeMe Maybe he or she was trying to "frame" the story/character in a certain way.
@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
4 Sep 19
@TheHorse I would too not sure who the reporter was but he must have been a young one lol
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
I let her know it wasn't cool. Hopefully, she will not put something like that in any other books.
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@betlynfrnds (4069)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Most everyone I know that is chronologically older than my husband and me are physically much older. Usually I let younger people talk about their ailments and all I can say is 'Wow' it really stinks to be them.
Some of the ailments are very serious. My husband has 2 grand kids. A month before the one turned 5 years old, he was taken the the hospital emergency room with a case of pneumonia. Three years later he got it again. His younger sister was just diagnosed with pneumonia as well.
They both have had and are susceptible to bronchitis, allergies and who knows what else. Needless to say, they're both a mess. Right now, he's 8 years old and she's 6. I can only imagine what they will be like 10 years from now.
But enough about them. I have never had so much a one cavity let alone any major issues. My husband is in pretty decent shape too. Neither of us are spring chickens but I think we're in much better shape than many younger people are, starting with hid grand kids.
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@betlynfrnds (4069)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@snowy22315 I'm not convinced that it is old either.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Yes, I am in better shape physically then younger people I know and some who are not much older seem positively decript.However, that aside, 60 is not old! You will never convince me it is.
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@LeaPea2417 (37353)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Sep 19
Yes, I would be perturbed because I read an article not too long ago that said 60 is the new 30.
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@Marilynda1225 (82798)
• United States
3 Sep 19
60 isn't old too me but then again I'm already past 70
I don't feel old and when you hear on the news with bad weather , etc to check on your elderly relatives and neighbors I never consider myself to be in that category.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
3 Sep 19
Yes, I would be offended if somebody would come to check on me..cuz they thought I was old..
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@Marilynda1225 (82798)
• United States
3 Sep 19
@snowy22315 my young neighbor across the street come by for a visit here and there but never to "check up" on me.
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@snowy22315 (180699)
• United States
6 Sep 19
Not young, but certainly not old! Young at heart is what counts anyway!
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