Be a parents it's not easy
By Nasya Aulia
@kasmakarim (1932)
Indonesia
September 6, 2019 6:44am CST
As a child who had been a child too, I understood the feeling of being scolded only for simple things --- not wanting to take my own food --- for example.
If you are scolding a child for things that really need to be disciplined, I guess that's okay. But try not too often or even to hit them.
That's not the way to educate a child ...
Keep in your mind. Like planting flower trees, which make beautiful trees and flowers grow not because of thunder and storms. But care and patience in caring of it.
Each of your anger at your child, the more you scold him, the more he will not come closer to you.
But being a parent isn't that easy. Sometimes the parents spoil their children too much so that their children do not have manners and act as they wish because they feel that their parents will not scold them.
Hfft, like seriously, being a parent is not an easy job...
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
Ya, it's so hard. I'm glad I'm not married yet
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
@Starkinds But you will married soon, right? I saw it on your post
@rakski (125769)
• Philippines
6 Sep 19
@kasmakarim oh so you are not yet a parent?
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 19
@rakski I'm not. I'm 19 years old and still single.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
I'm not a parent yet so I'm waiting for what it's like
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
6 Sep 19
Its really hard to become a parent. Disciplining your own child makes it twice more diffiult.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
I know, sometimes parents just want to discipline their children but it is difficult to control emotions at the times like that which causes it to be too gone far.
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@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
6 Sep 19
@kasmakarim You are right. As much as possible we have o control our emotions and be more patient.
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@jaboUK (64354)
• United Kingdom
6 Sep 19
@kasmakarim That is so true, then they wonder that they turn out wild.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
@jaboUK Hahaha, they should have asked themselves
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
Yes, Time is more important. Many parents out there feel that giving more money to their children is more than giving time with their children
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Sep 19
children learn things first from the home so mostly the growth of children depends on parents and they will learn what their parents learn them or do what their parents do. its a very tough but must need work.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
Yes, even I'm not sure if I can be a good parent or not in the future
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 19
Indeed, it is a job with very big challenges. Whatever we will do, determine what will become a child
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
6 Sep 19
It is the hardest job you will ever do but the rewards of being successful at it are wonderful to behold.
@aureategloom (11150)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
6 Sep 19
again, i think sometimes the fault might be in a child. my parents raised me and my brother the same way, but we're so different. of course, hitting a child is never the right way.
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@kasmakarim (1932)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 19
I also have a difference in character with my other brothers and sister. It seems indeed it was from individuals who made it.
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