Big changes this year

Aberdeen, North Carolina
September 10, 2019 4:12am CST
Since 2012, I’ve been homeschooling my kids. My son is 18 and about to enter the local community college for GED classes and some trade certification courses. My daughter is 16 and has started at one of the local high schools as a freshman. She should be a junior, but because of how we homeschooled she didn’t have a transcript for the school. Without a transcript, she had to begin as a freshman so she will be a year older than I was when she graduates. That’s fine. The school says she can graduate in 3 years providing that she gets all 24 of her core credits. She can do it. It’s the first time in a long time that I’ve had to go back to school shopping and when you’re on a tight budget as a single parent in a single income household and it’s the slow months at work, well, I’m feeling that financial pressure right now. I have gotten everything they needed though, but I might have to ask my church for help for October’s rent and I don’t like it. It’s hard to bite back your pride and ask for help. It should be their dad helping me, but whatever. I’ll speak to our bishop as see what he can do next Sunday.
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@LindaOHio (182031)
• United States
10 Sep 19
It's no shame to ask for help. You will be fine. Thanks for the update on your children.
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@LindaOHio (182031)
• United States
10 Sep 19
@acrogodess I know what you mean. I'm stubborn too; but sometimes you have to think about the rest of your family too!
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• Aberdeen, North Carolina
10 Sep 19
I’ve always been really stubborn and want to do things myself. It’s really humbling when I have to admit that I need help.
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• Aberdeen, North Carolina
11 Sep 19
@LindaOHio I know. I can’t expect my kids to ask for help if they need it if they never see me do so.
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• Agra, India
10 Sep 19
I'm sad to hear this. Have faith in God and be true to yourself. He will.definitely figure out a way for you.
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• Aberdeen, North Carolina
10 Sep 19
I know that everything will be okay. I shouldn’t be so prideful anyway so maybe this is a good lesson for me to learn.
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• Agra, India
10 Sep 19
@acrogodess yes ..this is the true. Just give it your best and leave everything else on God.
• United States
10 Sep 19
I give you much credit you are a wonderful Mother. Yes go ahead and ask for help and I pray that you get it.
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• Aberdeen, North Carolina
10 Sep 19
Thank you. My church is wonderful. I just really dislike having to ask for help. I know they will help me. I just have to ask.
@Janet357 (75646)
10 Sep 19
Sorry to hear about this, asking for help is not bad.l i think your friends know your real situation.
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• Aberdeen, North Carolina
10 Sep 19
I know that I will be fine. My stress is my own fault for being prideful, so perhaps this is a lesson for me.