How do we help ourselves to go through difficult times

Bulgaria
September 11, 2019 1:53pm CST
Since February me and my partner are working on having baby ! Yes, I know... such a lovely time . But is already September and we have no result yet... I know doctors say is normal to try up to year before you start worry, but doesn't not change the facts and the emotions going inside us. To wait every month for the moment. Trying not to worry when you feel with every month that pass the stress is getting more and more. How do you help yourself when you are stress , worry etc ? I'll be glad if you share some positive stories , experience or whatever
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
11 Sep 19
Music is what helps me. They say that you should try having a baby 8 days before your period. Something like that i have heard because you ovulate.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
11 Sep 19
@Sisleysis how many times have you tried? You shouldn't give up easily.
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• Bulgaria
11 Sep 19
@Ladanger we are working on in since February 8th circles
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• Bulgaria
11 Sep 19
Yes, music is always a good idea ! Ovulation is topic that can drive you crazy when I speak with doctors or read more and more information get just more complicated and in the end of the day is about when it means to be will be.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
12 Sep 19
Sometimes it happens when you are thinking least about it and just living in present.
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• United States
12 Sep 19
@Sisleysis My Mom often said, if you simply live your best life and believe that what is suppose to be will be. I try often to remember that and enjoy the moments. It is very hard to simply live in the present and Mom was great at that.
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• Bulgaria
12 Sep 19
@Writingghost you had great mother!
• Bulgaria
12 Sep 19
This is so true ! But as every thing we plan not easy to don't think about it
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@psanasangma (7281)
• India
18 Sep 19
Stress is something that cannot be avoided it always comes back.. Sometimes for me being alone, travelling to some places that I never visit works
@Aleskys (5879)
• Venezuela
11 Sep 19
Friend I had a similar experience, 8 months trying and every month that I felt belly ache depressed me and my medical exams were fine, the doctor told me that anxiety was bad for that, so I gave courage and I forgot the matter, when I felt belly ache, I didn't think about it, I followed my normal routine after 3 months plus BINGO yami daughter is 2 years and three months old, so relax the anxiety, it contributes unfavorably in these cases.
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• Bulgaria
11 Sep 19
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! God bless your daughter! I hope soon I'll finally see the positive test. Will be going soon for general blood exam and hopefully all be fine
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@Aleskys (5879)
• Venezuela
11 Sep 19
@Sisleysis Thank you and amen trust God soon you'll see I still keep that test that was positive on September 19 three years ago and I'm still excited to see it.
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• Bulgaria
12 Sep 19
@Aleskys I can't wait to see it . Hopefully this month finally. Thank you