I made a mistake?
By Alex
@alexskil (23)
Bucharest, Romania
September 21, 2019 1:30am CST
I think I upset a friend today.The story is like this.I always told my friend everythink and a lot of times I asked her oprinion,but she almost aways had something bad to say about it like if I buy a tv ..the tv cost to much or is not a good one.If I buy food she buy's food from a more cheap store etc.Every time I was glad that I have something new or something that I really need it,she made me feel bad.She is not a bad person,she helped me a lot of times but she always has something bad to say so I stopped telling her everything.And she started to get upset,because she things that I don't tell her because I speak with other friend.Today I called and she was speaking very cold..I am the kind of a person that doesn't like to upset people,and I kind'a fill bad because she helped me a lot over years but in the same time...she doesn't tell me all she does or buy's and I never tell her that she made a mistake buying something,I never took her joy buy she did to me so...Do I think wrong?What do I do?or think?
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@denrayearth15 (43)
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21 Sep 19
Talk to your friend, maybe she only wants the best for you. I also had my bestfriend. But when i got married she distance herself to me. When she had a problem, i gave her advice to let go of her boyfriend because he's bad for her. Hes always cheating. She got upset with me because of my advice. We didn't talk for almost 10 years. And she end up marrying another man.
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@alexskil (23)
• Bucharest, Romania
21 Sep 19
Yea but it's a little different when it comes to my ''problems''I mean she is not a goot teh for example I am so when ''you'say that I got a bad tv but you don't know about tv and you know that I know or when you tell me all the time that you buy thinks more cheap from a place that ''you''know that I can go but you talk bad about all the thinks that I buy...It's a little...
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@denrayearth15 (43)
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21 Sep 19
@alexskil just talk to your friend because you will never know whats your friend problem unless you ask her. You should tell her that her actions upsets you.
@Starkinds (32712)
• India
21 Sep 19
You should talk with her openly and then wait sometime see the results
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@aureategloom (8848)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
23 Sep 19
"she thinks that i don't tell her because i speak with other friend" - honestly, i would stop talking to the friend who can get upset over this usual thing. why would it be a problem if you're talking to other people? it doesn't make sense. but if she means a lot to you, then you should probably try to talk things out and tell her openly how you feel about her comments on the things you share with her. you know how it says "if you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all"
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
23 Sep 19
Hi dear. U can't make everyone happy in this world. You shouldn't worry much. These kind of things or fight happens between friends. Give her some space and she will realise herself the way she reacted was wrong. U take care
