Do I hold on or resign
By Desjosh
@jaysondmjm24 (33)
September 26, 2019 3:54am CST
I know we all have gotten to that point where one has to make choices.
Am currently battling whether to resign from my current job.. I know I have bills to be paid n some dependents too,.. but I feel I can’t stay anymore with the way my current boss is treating me.
I also don’t have another job in place or any offers n it’s hard to get a job on this side.
Do I stay and be patient as I look for a way out or do I just give in to my emotions n resign and go stay at home with nothing at hand.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Sep 19
If I were you I would wait until I found something else before quitting
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@jaysondmjm24 (33)
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26 Sep 19
My problem is I don’t know how to pretend if I start hating someone so I will struggle to maintain a sober working relationship with them.
I will however try my best
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
26 Sep 19
@jaysondmjm24 that is all you can do. I know it is difficult. I hope you find something new soon.
@jaysondmjm24 (33)
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26 Sep 19
Am really weighing on the options I have if to hold on n continue searching or resign and look for a job while outside.
It’s that confusing
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@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
26 Sep 19
You should look for another job because it would be hard to you to pay all your bills if you leave. Try to stay patient as you need to earn money to support your dependents. I was doing some supply teaching and I didn't like the head teacher. One teacher came from New Zealand and for an assembly she had her class sing. The head teacher said bad things about it. I applied for other teaching positions and one came up closer to where I lived. Good luck.
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@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
26 Sep 19
If I can turn back time, I would have quit. I would have easily found another job. I stayed and now I have mental illness and physical pain. Ugh regrets. In your situation, you'll be the best judge still.
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@jaysondmjm24 (33)
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26 Sep 19
Sorry to hear this. I do not wish to get there but am pray for a breakthrough in all this
@RingoBerry (71)
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27 Sep 19
That's what they call a "toxic" person. Sometimes the first step is to really get away from that particular person and you'll be able to think clearer. Right now you feel like you have no other option if you resign.
In my country, we simply report people like that. People take it to social media and we have offices we can approach to help us resolve it quickly.
This is just my two cents. I wish you luck and do keep in mind its not only that mean person who is around you, I bet you also have good people who are that willing to listen and give you advise or the help you need.
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@jaysondmjm24 (33)
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27 Sep 19
The problem in our country corruption is too much that if I was to report such a person I would end up loosing everything as money will buy their story and Tables maybe turned and I become a victim.
@VoiceofTruth7 (1199)
• United States
26 Sep 19
I would say stay for now my look for other options knocking doors call around acts around have you ever thought about working online have you ever what about starting your own business have you ever thought about doing any of that I would say stay for now until you find greener pastures I hope this helps and I hope you find a solution soon and I hope that you find happiness you have a great and prosperous and fulfilling life.
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@psanasangma (7281)
• India
27 Sep 19
If there are are any misunderstanding among the colleagues,it is better to sort it out first and in case if not or not liking the environment its' better to get new job with higher salary or same salary then resign
@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
26 Sep 19
Have something ready to go to in case it takes a long time to get a new job. Never quit without a way to have money coming in. Unless you can afford it.
You can have a bad boss in every job, I didn't like a lot of mine, but it is part of the work world. I have had the best ones, the worse of the bunch, but hang in there.
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
26 Sep 19
@jaysondmjm24
It would be nice if you have another job to go to so you can resign. Do you find jobs fast? If not, you mentioned you have to pay bills so unless it is so bad stay there till you find another job.
@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
29 Sep 19
Why not resign and stay at home since you can't sustain the bad treatment of your boss?
@crisma15 (451)
• Venezuela
26 Sep 19
the truth I would try to send my resume to other companies before giving up
@jaysondmjm24 (33)
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27 Sep 19
I have started doing exactly this n praying I get an opening
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@andersonc (124)
• Santa Rita, Venezuela
28 Sep 19
Hello I imagine the discomfort that you must be going through in your work but you still have to face it with courage because the ideal would be that you will look for a new job. Think it would be worse for you to be unemployed and in debt. I hope my advice helps and good luck.