When newbies "Love MyLot" so much but then disappear....
@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
Perth, Australia
September 28, 2019 5:17am CST
I have seen this many times and it just makes me giggle. This isn't having a go at anyone or making fun of anyone. It's just an observation.
There have been many times where a person will join MyLot, hang around for less than a day, do a post about how much they love this site, and not too long after, they just disappear. Where do these people go? 
Is someone here scaring them away? 
OR maybe the thought of this site got them super excited since it pays us but it's not the amount they were hoping for? 
Or maybe there are MyLot snatchers here! 
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@moffittjc (121739)
• Gainesville, Florida
28 Sep 19
They realize you actually have to WORK to make money on this site! LOL
Or....JJ gets a hold of them and rips them to shreds!
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@moffittjc (121739)
• Gainesville, Florida
28 Sep 19
@Daljinder I don't blame him....I congratulate him! He scares off the weak-minded fools.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
28 Sep 19
@moffittjc Don't blame JJ. He is under the influence of the mighty Scar.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
28 Sep 19
@moffittjc He sure does! It's hilarious when what JJ is saying goes over their head. They don't understand his way of talking.
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@LadyDuck (472121)
• Switzerland
28 Sep 19
@Daljinder There are also those who immediately SPAM the others leaving PMs and asking to follow them.
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
28 Sep 19
@LadyDuck Oh! Thankfully, I haven't encountered such kind...yet. I am sure when someone reminds them that it is against the rules they run?
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@Daljinder (23236)
• Bangalore, India
28 Sep 19
@LadyDuck Ha! Yes, I have seen those kinds too. 
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
29 Sep 19
@VivaLaDani13 I see.Have a good tickle there.lol
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@amadeo I agree. No big deal. Just tickled my funny bone.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
28 Sep 19
It is rightly said that people join mylot but disappear after a few days, they think that they will become a millionaire in eight-ten days but it does not happen anywhere
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@Starkinds lol I think some people think that way about MyLot too! There have been people before who have done a post asking if they can make hundreds of dollars a day here. Just not possible. So they leave.
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@Starkinds (32712)
• India
30 Sep 19
@VivaLaDani13 true my lot is not a earning site it's a interacting site
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@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
1 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 That's a good point. If it's not for them, then it's not for them. I wouldn't want anyone to be forced to stay, or be uncomfortable, or anything like that.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
1 Oct 19
@dodo19 I agree with you for sure. 
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
1 Oct 19
@dodo19 I agree with you. It does suck to see them come and go so fast but I wouldn't want them to feel uncomfortable here so best for them to go really.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@yanzalong I think that could be the reason for some too.
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@RasmaSandra (80884)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
29 Sep 19
Shhh don't let the word out I think there are some myLot gremlins about
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@RasmaSandra haha! ok I will keep it a secret!
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@akalinus (43366)
• United States
30 Sep 19
@VivaLaDani13 If I was only doing it for money, I would be gone too. There are other benefits of working at this site. We are a family.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@akalinus oh I doubt it lol I've never seen you as mean or anything towards anyone! And I agree. I think the amount of money plays a major role on why people don't stay here.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
1 Oct 19
@akalinus Such a beautiful thing to say! "We are a family." I agree. I love coming on here seeing all the familiar names / faces. There are quite a lot of people I haven't interacted with yet or had very little interaction with but I still feel safe and comfortable here.
@teresatrotter (4073)
• Jacksonville, Florida
30 Sep 19
I did that for a while, because I saw a lot of discrimination, both with members and administration.
Got frustrated and left for a while. Came back briefly a few times, then left again. Finally... I decided not to put a lot of hope in this place. I now just post what I feel like, when I feel like it...and not expect anything.
If something good comes from the post, then it is an added plus.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
1 Oct 19
@teresatrotter Oh really?? I'm very sorry to know this. And sorry for that experience you had. A majority of people here are amazing but I know that there are some that cause some distress here.
@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
3 Oct 19
@teresatrotter That makes me feel bad that you feel that way but at the same time, I still know exactly where you are coming from. I've had and still do have people who use me. They claim to be your friend but don't really ask how you're doing. They rather let you know they have a new post for you to answer. It does get a bit stressful when people view you as their money making minion rather than a friend.
The money does personally help me and I admit it does get frustrating when I put time, effort and energy into answering people and not getting answers back. But the friends I have made here make me so much more happy than the money. I made a best friend here too.
I do hope no more people bad mouth you or treat you negatively to the point you wish to leave. I'm sorry people have put you through that!
@teresatrotter (4073)
• Jacksonville, Florida
1 Oct 19
@VivaLaDani13 - Yeah... Thanks. This place does not really give you that much freedom. Sometimes the simplest thing will get your posts deleted. Nothing was really bad, just being nitpicky. Then I saw some members bad mouth me, so I blocked them from responding to any of my posts. I don't find loyalty much here. They are there for you as long as you earn them money, and if you don't...you never hear from them again.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
28 Sep 19
JJ tells it like it is and some of them can't handle it. May have come and gone never to be seen again.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@Happy2BeMe lol poor JJ. You're not the first to mention him. I like how he tells it like it is! It's not very common people do that.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
30 Sep 19
@VivaLaDani13 that's what we all love about him.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@Ladanger Oh that is true for sure!
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@marguicha (223863)
• Chile
29 Sep 19
Maybe they wrote that with the hope of getting rich quicker. We old mylots never thought about that . We stuck here because we have less imagination
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Many newbie´s first post is about help to get money.@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@marguicha lol I wonder if that was the reason too! Good point!
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
1 Oct 19
@jaboUK I really believe that is the case too.
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@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
28 Sep 19
I noticed, I would say probably 1 out of 20 may actually stay here.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@CookieMonster46 Yeah a lot of people really do leave quite quickly. I feel happy when people stay though. Or at least give MyLot a better chance.
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@CookieMonster46 (13454)
• United States
29 Sep 19
@VivaLaDani13 True , but if the site just isn't for them, I understand.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@CookieMonster46 Yeah same here. If someone genuinely doesn't like it here then I can understand that.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
28 Sep 19
Maybe they make a post so early to share a feeling, as soon as they seeing earning then they can't survive here. If not concentrate on earning then its lot of fun and news things they can enjoy but at last it's their choice which they want.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@birjudanak Very well said. I agree with you!
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@Writingghost (5196)
• United States
28 Sep 19
My perspective may be a little different. I think they hope and expect that someone will always respond to their posts and that often doesn't happen. If they feel invisible then that is a great reason to leave.
I think most people don't have high expectations of $$ amounts.
Of course, I could be completely off base.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
29 Sep 19
@Writingghost Hey that is another good point! Thank you for your answer. I am sure that would be another reason for some people who come and leave here.
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@VivaLaDani13 (60803)
• Perth, Australia
30 Sep 19
@Writingghost That is very kind of you! I try to do that too sometimes but I'm mostly elsewhere around on MyLot. Lurking here and there lol
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@Writingghost (5196)
• United States
29 Sep 19
@VivaLaDani13 You are very welcome. That is why I try and find things with no comments and say something.
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