Is it normal for a mother to be angry because I don't want to eat her food?

@dya80dya (36578)
October 13, 2019 3:56pm CST
My mother cooked a food and she left it at 13 degrees Celsius for several hours. The taste was changed and the smell was also changed. I refused to eat it. The food had rice and meat in it. She started to judge me. She told me that I will feel worse and worse. She said that I exaggerate a lot. She told me that I made her very upset. She will not forgive me. I feel sad now.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
14 Oct 19
Was not be possible to re-heat the food if you do not like it cold? I would have not eaten either, I do not like cold food.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
16 Oct 19
@dya80dya Cold food is not good at all and often re-heating is not as good as hot food out from the stove.
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
Yes, I re-heated it. But it had a weird smell and taste. Not too bad, but it was different. Cold food is not good.
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@dya80dya (36578)
16 Oct 19
@LadyDuck Yes. But we can't throw the food. The taste is changed if we re-heat it.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
14 Oct 19
If you already found the food was not alright, it is fine that you didn't eat it. But you have to explain it patiently to your mom. I can't say that moms will get mad when children refuse to eat the food they make, but be sure it will upset them. Moms tend to prepare for good food for children. The problem is the food has changed after a long time.
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@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
16 Oct 19
@dya80dya That's great. You know how important it is to make a mom happy
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
Yes. My mom doesn't understand. She was mad, but today she isn't so angry.
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@dya80dya (36578)
16 Oct 19
@youless Yes. And when she is angry she really knows how to hurt us.
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• United States
13 Oct 19
If the food sat out for 9 or 10 hours and smelled and tasted different, like I said, the food has gone bad and could make you sick. You are doing the right thing by not eating that and wouldn't feel bad about it. Did your mother still eat it?
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
Yes, my mother eat it. And nothing happened to her.
• United States
15 Oct 19
@dya80dya Thank goodness, I'm glad.
• United States
14 Oct 19
Well only if it is damaging you.
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• United States
15 Oct 19
@dya80dya Good glad nothing had happened to her then.
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
I am not sure if it's not good. She ate it and nothing happened to her.
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@BelleStarr (61102)
• United States
14 Oct 19
Better safe than sorry is my motto.
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
I agree with you. I didn't eat them, even if this made my mother angry.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
14 Oct 19
If it smells bad, it is bad.
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
I agree. It had a different smell. I didn't eat it.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
15 Oct 19
@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
14 Oct 19
That's a bit warm to keep the food out for several hours. I'm glad you didn't eat it.
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
I agree. And this food had rice and meat.
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@NJChicaa (119521)
• United States
13 Oct 19
sounds like it went off. Good for you for not eating it. Let her get sick from it.
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
She ate it and nothing happened to her.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
13 Oct 19
You are done right thing. She will be in better mood tomorrow.
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@dya80dya (36578)
15 Oct 19
It's true. Today she is not so angry.
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• Waialua, Hawaii
16 Oct 19
I'm sorry you experienced that but you did the right thing