Rest In War....Ahem, Peace

The graves of Randolph and Sarah McCoy at Dils Cemetery, Pikeville, KY.  Photo taken by and the property of FourWalls.
@FourWalls (68918)
United States
October 15, 2019 11:44am CST
One of the least scenic stops on my jaunt east was at the Dils Cemetery in Pikeville, Kentucky. The cemetery is on the National Register of Historic Places, primarily due to its association with those feudin’ families from that area. My dear mother of blessed memory used to say that Kentucky frequently makes headlines for all the wrong reasons. She had a point, given that one of the most infamous feuds in history occurred in Kentucky: the Hatfield-McCoy feud. Randolph McCoy, from Kentucky, was the patriarch of one family; while West Virginia’s William A. Hatfield was the father of the other clan. There’s some speculation, even to this day, about why the feud started. Some say there was claim of a stolen pig. Others say their disdain for one another started in the Civil War (where the Hatfields were Confederates and the McCoys were Unionists). Whatever started it, the feud became a notorious, headline-news war. West Virginia has a Hatfield/McCoy Feud trail, where you can go to various spots in the history of the feud. Pikeville, Kentucky, near the West Virginia border, also has numerous markers depicting events in the feud. Dils Cemetery marks the permanent end of it. Randolph McCoy, his wife Sarah, and daughter Roseanna (who was murdered in the feud, and considered a “traitor” because she was dating one of the Hatfields) are buried in a family plot. Up the hill you can find Basil Hatfield, the uncle of William Anderson Hatfield, buried with his wife, along with members of the Cline family (who figured into both sides of the feud: some were friends of the Hatfields, others, the McCoys). They’re resting in war....ahem, peace now. PS — Dils Cemetery is also significant because it is thought to be the first cemetery in the south that allowed for African-Americans to be buried in the same cemetery as Caucasians. Colonel John Dils, who owned the land, was opposed to slavery and gave land to his employees (mostly freed slaves) for burial plots. The sad punch line to this is that nearly all of the 130 blacks buried in the cemetery had unmarked graves.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Oct 19
I was there before you! Last June. How did you like parking by the fire station then crossing that busy street then hiking up the hill? This last trip I went to the grave of Devil Anse Hatfield in WV.
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@FourWalls (68918)
• United States
15 Oct 19
It wasn’t that busy when I was there. The steps dang near got me, not to mention the climb up the side of the hill to the Hatfield plot. Too much climbing in The Breaks, I guess.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
15 Oct 19
@FourWalls When I was there, it seems like a car was coming every two seconds. If you thought the climb there was bad just wait until you experience the hike to the Hatfield cemetery.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
15 Oct 19
Did not know this about KY cemeteries.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
15 Oct 19
Your post made me smile. Compared to Italians and Corsicans where a vendetta between 2 families may last several generations (and nobody remember why it started), the McCoys and the Hatfields look like amateurs. Oh, and I did nor knew that there were cemeteries for white people and cemeteries for black people. I had a look and there were also cemeteries for slaves in French colonies.
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@topffer (42156)
• France
15 Oct 19
@FourWalls What law ? The US law or the Cherokee law ? Our cemeteries used to have a non-consecrated space for people that the Catholic Church was rejecting, like actors. They were buried by night until the end of the 18th C.
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@FourWalls (68918)
• United States
15 Oct 19
@topffer — “those” laws. I started in Carrollton, which was named after a signer of the Declaration of Independence. He was good enough to sign that, but as a Catholic he wasn’t allowed to run for political office. This country has always been screwed up.
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@FourWalls (68918)
• United States
15 Oct 19
There’s a place on the Trail of Tears showing where two Cherokee chiefs were buried. “The law” said they couldn’t be buried in either a “black” or “white” cemetery!
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@JudyEv (341826)
• Rockingham, Australia
16 Oct 19
Some feuds run for years, don't they?
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@FourWalls (68918)
• United States
16 Oct 19
They do. As @topffer pointed out, there's some vendettas that went on in Italy that may still be going on. I thought a lot of The Godfather and the mafia family-fighting when I was reading about the Hatfields & McCoys.
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@LindaOHio (181331)
• United States
15 Oct 19
I like visiting cemeteries on trips. It's so interesting. Have a great day.
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• Waialua, Hawaii
15 Oct 19
I always find old cemeteries very interesting and peaceful and have been known to stop and walk around in one that I happen to spot while driving somewhere else. Either that or making a note of it and returning to it
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@Bensen32 (27743)
• United States
15 Oct 19
I have read about this but never been to the area, maybe someday I will get there and see it first hand.
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• Mexico
15 Oct 19
I didin't know this either, thank you for the information
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