Is it true that once a cheater, always a cheater?

Philippines
October 15, 2019 11:30pm CST
I really just wanna share this one. Last night, my ex boyfriend's girlfriend (which is now, his ex girlfriend) sent me a message. BTW, before I share the actual content of the message, me and that boy have broken up for some 4 years ago already because he cheated on me for this girl. So the message goes like this: (translated exactly from Tagalog to English) "Hi. You may not remember me anymore because it has been 4 long years, but I was the girl who stole your ex. Well...I just want to say I am very sorry. This may not matter to you anymore because I know you are already happy with your married life, but I still owe you one so I am sorry. I just also wanted to explain my side of the story. He told me that he was single and that you were already with another guy at that time and I believed him. And now, he was telling this same sh*t to other girls and I broke up with him. I should not have trusted him knowing he cheated on you to be with me. Now he cheated his way again out of our relationship. If this is what you call karma, so be it. I just wanted to let you know that I admire you for being strong. I didn't hear anything from you when you were in this situation because you just decided that you will let us be happy. And now I chose to be like you. Please know that his family loved you for all those 8 years. I know they loved me too, but I guess, he really is the way he is. Again, I'm sorry. I was wrong...really wrong. " And you know what I replied? " Let me hug you, sis!"
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@rakski (120985)
• Philippines
16 Oct 19
I believe that if you do good deeds, it will come back to you hundred folds and so is bad deeds.
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• Philippines
16 Oct 19
I agree.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
16 Oct 19
What a guy... Someday, he will find his match...
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• Philippines
16 Oct 19
Yeah sure he will.
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@hereandthere (45645)
• Philippines
16 Oct 19
she's courageous, too, for trying to make amends and you were gracious to her. good for you both. i hope she too finds a great guy.
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• Philippines
16 Oct 19
I really hope her heart heals fast so she can love herself again and be loved the right way.
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• Philippines
16 Oct 19
I think you should lower case your title, I read it's against the guidelines. But we do understand your anger. As for your post, he will definitely get his karma in the end. Sorry won't bring back the time lost.
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• Philippines
16 Oct 19
Done editing. Thanks for the reminder.
@Alexandoy (65308)
• Cainta, Philippines
16 Oct 19
I would ignore that message if I were you.
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• Philippines
16 Oct 19
At first, yeah I thought of ignoring it. But then, I realized, I was once on her situation, and that she needed a virtual hug,
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@Nakitakona (56486)
• Philippines
17 Oct 19
Not at all. It's good she felt remorseful about it. And she regretted it and was sorry about. Forget her but take the great lesson what she did to you. It's good you forgive her.
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