Let's Open The First Door Of The Advent Calendar!
By M.-L.
@MALUSE (69373)
Germany
December 1, 2019 10:33am CST
For the little ones the Christmas season starts on 1st December when they open the first door of their Advent Calendar (advent, from Latin = arrival, coming). They usually have some space between two sheets of cardboard (the upper one depicts a Christmas or winter scene) so that some chocolate can be put behind the doors. More modern versions are strings hanging on the walls or anything which might hold 24 little parcels.
The four Sundays before Christmas are the so-called Advent Sundays. Whereas the Advent Calendar is for children, nearly every household has an Advent Wreath made of fir twigs with four, usually red, candles for the four Sundays. Although it isn’t forbidden to lighten them all at once, people don’t, they light first one candle, the next Sunday two and so on.
December 6th is Nikolaus Day. I don’t know how Nikolaus or Father Christmas travel to Germany, certainly not by reindeer sledge, but how then? The means of transportation for the Christmas personnel is no issue here, what matters is that they arrive. How the presents reach the child is also unknown and not seen as relevant, either, in any case the chimney isn’t used, neither by Nikolaus nor by Father Christmas.
The figure of Nikolaus goes back to a legendary bishop in Asia Minor who lived from around 280 to around 350, the exact dates are unknown. His first good deed was to throw three bags of gold through the window of a pauper who was so desperate that he was considering prostitution for his three daughters. With that dowry, however, he was able to marry them off to honourable men.
Later the bishop performed some miracles, all in the field of charity. The Nikolaus German children love is also known in other European countries, the transformation of the historical into a mythical figure occurred in the 13th century in France. Sometimes Nikolaus has got so much to carry so that he’s accompanied by a servant with the name of Rupprecht.
Whereas Father Christmas is quite an elusive guy, it’s not difficult to get into personal contact with Nikolaus. The town where I live has a Police Academy, together with the local newspaper they organise a Rent-a-Nikolaus-service in December.
The parents call it and order a young policeman who dresses up as Nikolaus (very much like Father Christmas). When he rings the bell, they go out, give him about 10 pounds (the money goes to a local Charity project), the presents (small ones, Nikolaus Day is not a second Christmas) and a list with the vices and virtues of the children, the highpoint of the performance!
First Nikolaus introduces himself with a poem, then he reads from his list, praising or scolding the children, using his switch if necessary (no modern pedagogics here!) depending on what he finds on the list, but always ending on a positive note and handing over the presents after listening to poems and songs the little ones have prepared for him. Very rarely does it happen that a child is really frightened and doesn’t reappear from under the sofa while he’s present!
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@much2say (55512)
• Los Angeles, California
1 Dec 19
I am so glad you reminded me . . . the kids have advent calendars they received from their aunt . . . today IS the first day! We bought an advent calendar for my sister's dog (that is her child) - yes, they sell them at a particular grocery store here - and this year they even have one for cats. I love that there is more to the true "Advent" tradition - but I have only heard of this now. The Nikolaus tradition also sounds sweet and in the true spirit of the season.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
1 Dec 19
we were very fortunate to spend one year with friends in Belgium and celebrated St Nicklaus - getting chocolates with the letter of our name L. Love the European celebrations up to Christmas - we dont have anything like this in SA.
I have advent calendars for my grandsons and tomorrow when they arrive they can open door ONE, then I shall allow them to open each door in the evening or on the days that they are with us.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
1 Dec 19
If there are 24 doors like the one on the photo we call them Christmas calendars. Some of them only consist of paper and some of them contain chocolate. Here an advent calendar consists of 4 small gifts instead of 24 doors. Some parents prefer to give their children a small gift every Sunday instead of a calendar with 24 doors.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50184)
• United States
1 Dec 19
Even after I was an adult my parents gave me an advent calendar every year until they got sick. The ones from Germany are the best.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50184)
• United States
1 Dec 19
@MALUSE I have been a bad mother this year. I forgot to get one.
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
1 Dec 19
@Tampa_girl7 Today is only December 1st. I'm sure an advent calender will be accepted also tomorrow or the day after tomorrow.
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@LindaOHio (177898)
• United States
1 Dec 19
This is a very interesting post. These traditions are very different from the ones I'm used to. Thank you.
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@LindaOHio (177898)
• United States
1 Dec 19
@MALUSE There are probably people that have come from other countries that celebrate in this way; but for Americans it's Santa Claus and 8 reindeer!...and, of course, the Christmas tree.
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@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
4 Dec 19
The advent calendar is embodied in our annual rituals. The grandchildren all have theirs and open them up religiously every morning. My son in law has one full of cheeses and my wife picked up a massive bargain last week an advent calendar filled with Make up. Value £175 for £25. She told me it was a bargain apparently. I reminded her that she does not wear make up apart from a dab of lipstick so perhaps not the bargain she thought it was! Or is that just men's logic !
@thelme55 (76851)
• Germany
1 Dec 19
I heard this story from my parents-in-law when they were telling my son about the German tradition of Advent, Advent calendar and Nikolaus. They were not only teaching my small son but also me. It was fun. Thanks for writing this discussion. Germans have a very wonderful Christmas tradition. Before I got married, I had no idea that Tannenbaum, Kindergarten and other Christmas traditions were German origins.