Should I wait for my ex ?
@Pammela (9)
December 12, 2019 9:28pm CST
A couple of days my boyfriend left me. I was really heartbroken and I’ve been pretty depressed lately. I do nothing but cry and have this empty feeling. He said it could just be a break for awhile until we feel ready to date again. I’m not sure if I believe him, what if he’s flirting with other girls and I’m wasting my time waiting for him. I don’t know what to do , I really love him and want us to workout. I can’t imagine my future without him but I don’t know if I should wait :(. What if I’m there waiting for him and he eventually finds a new girl. Please give me some advice
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@Bensen32 (27610)
• United States
13 Dec 19
Well, from a male point of view he is playing the field while he hopes you wait around to see if he wants to come back. Don't depend on a man to make you happy and fulfill your life. I know it's hard to deal with at this moment but you have to make you happy and start moving on with your life.
The let's take a break and see if we want to date again really means let me go fool around and see if that works out if not I might come back and I want you to put everything on hold till I decide if it is worth going out on my own and if it doesn't work I will come back.
You don't need that and you shouldn't let that happen.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
13 Dec 19
Oh honey, no...
You have more value and deserve more than a man who is going to put you on the back burner. It definitely sounds like he isn't even sure what he wants... It also sounds as if he wants you to still be emotionally available to him in case he regrets this break.
You deserve better than that. Find a man that isn't going to make you wonder if he will flirt with other girls while you are on your break.
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